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    Sad 15 years SAHM undergoing marriage issues

    Similar scenario..... all we do is for family and never think of ourselves...….y husband/wife nowadays only think of themselves and never ever thought of the consequences of what they did...……simply want to get in and get out as and when they like...… But u managed to stay on rite, but did u...
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    Sad 15 years SAHM undergoing marriage issues

    Having a conversation with a guy whose mindset is set (prepare to b single again) is difficult...… don't know how to start and continue with it Sometimes felt like not talking anymore and ignore him...… he's definitely keen to meet with the counsellor to confirm on his made up mind and which...
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    Sad 15 years SAHM undergoing marriage issues

    That's y mother's love is the greatest thing in the world...………………...no matter what we still have kids by our side to make ur laugh and company...…...
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    Sad 15 years SAHM undergoing marriage issues

    Is not that how easily he can hide things from me but I really chose to believe that's there is no 3rd party involved...…if I kept suspecting things then my life will be even more difficult rite.... He didn't mention the D word but somehow insist we separate for a while to c how things go...…...
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    Sad 15 years SAHM undergoing marriage issues

    True...guess it's time to slowly move forward to the good things..... thanks
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    Sad 15 years SAHM undergoing marriage issues

    Hope everything has gone well for ur mum...….we woman definitely must b strong and show the guy we can do it even without them in our life...……...if not they think they are so important...…. Thanks for ur advice.....
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    Sad 15 years SAHM undergoing marriage issues

    Surely got some side effects after seeing how ur dad treat ur mum..... at least u all 'survived'...…… You'r indeed a sensible and strong woman and may u remain so...…….
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    Sad 15 years SAHM undergoing marriage issues

    Nope..... he said a group of people doing project (all uncles and auntie), had to believe rite..... cannot doubt his words everytime if not there will b no trust in between us... Like what I said earlier, it's sad for kids to grow up in a family with no love, respect, commitment..... Holding...
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    Sad 15 years SAHM undergoing marriage issues

    BTW, how's ur mum coping now? feeling more relaxed and carefree now after all the miserable things she had been going thru.....she is a strong woman and thankfully she got 3 sensible gals by her side....
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    Sad 15 years SAHM undergoing marriage issues

    Hi Jennnnn, thanks for sharing ur stories. It's sad to have no fatherly/motherly love when the child is growing up and in a 'happy' environment. That's what I don't wish this things could happen to my me and my kids. Most of the times he was at work and kids seldom c him, now even on weekends...
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    Sad 15 years SAHM undergoing marriage issues

    Yup..... he's not seeing someone else..... if so he will just need to bring the D word out instead of going thru all these. Well, it's glad to know that ur colleague managed to pick herself up and get a good job but I have no higher qualifications so it'll b quite difficult to get a good pay...
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    Sad 15 years SAHM undergoing marriage issues

    Hi, that's y we are really hoping the counselling will help us to work on the issues. Thanks for the encouragement.
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    Sad 15 years SAHM undergoing marriage issues

    Hi.....hope u'r fine now...…. Human beings will definitely think differently from one another so of course we will fight over some issues which we don't agree on....of course as wife, definitely we want them to inform us 1st b4 making any decision,...….is it because there'r some issue which he...
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    Sad 15 years SAHM undergoing marriage issues

    Did ask him but he said he also not sure what he want. He think he got bipolar...… Ask him the above questions, he said is his change of mindset...……??? Does man really had this kind of thinking after 15 years of marriage life...….. think and think...…………. found out that this is not the life...
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    Wanted Hourly Maid Needed , Not agency hourly

    Hi, do u still need helper. what are the job scope? currently a SAHM staying at BT Panjang area.

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