Recent content by johntan68

Sorry to hear what you going through. Stay strong and positive!

Just curious, what’s the purpose of sharing the website here ? further to that, whether to play at MBS or online, perfectly your wish, you need not have to consult anyone.

Sharing my own experience. A customer (lady) that I know for many years, called me while I’m driving and I answered her call via car speakers. My wife (now ex) was in the car too. This customer started off with “it has been so long I never see you, really miss you”... the aftermath, I have a...

Not pertaining to the care and control as he didn’t contest. The contested area was the right amount of Maintainence, who paid for the legals etc, both side of the lawyers negotiated and presented that before the judge to close the case.

For my friend case, no one win. Out of court settlement. Resolved amicably...

Actually if the hubby wants to contest, he still can even with evidence of him having affair. He still can file that the wife having unreasonable behavior that leads him astray. He still can contest in many areas like maintenance, care and control, custody etc if he chose to. I hope your hubby...

Hi Sis, I'm sorry to hear what you being thru, with 2 young kids and with hubby not supportive; having affair, it is pretty hard on you. Stay strong! I'm not sure both of you want to go for church counseling or any family counseling etc.. do you think you want to give that a try or at least...

Hi Sis, Understand the frustrations you facing. However, there surely have area of strengths your hubby have that attracts you? We all have strengths and weakness, dont keep focusing on the weak point, but look at overall, give and take. Just as an example, for me, there are so many plannings...

Just bcos of your failure; you are labeling every local men as loser. So in other words, you are calling your dad as loser too? haha

I think this is not quite possible as the jealousy mindset will kick in.... maybe it works in western country but I doubt it will works locally....

Hi sis, I can understand you fully. In my family, I have 4 siblings, including myself, 5. My parents have zero financial planning, they will not touch their saving no matter what and rely heavily on the children to support them. Both my parents are old and in our hospital several times a year...

How much you asking is quite tricky. It is not about you asking 1/7 or 2/7 or even 3/7 is that too much or too little etc... firstly, the judge will have to consider your financial means, secondly, whether your life style will be downgraded after the divorced and how much of the maintenance to...

I don’t think this is correct, it will be based on valuation price or the market price. It will not based on the initial purchased price of the property.

Hi I will try to answer your question:- 1) Sole custody is not really in favor. This means that if anything happens to your kids, your hubby can’t make any decision. A sensible way should be joint custody. I believe what you really want is care and control. 2) doesn’t matter if you are house...

I'm not sure if it is legitimate for your husband to block your access to your child. You may want to speak to your lawyer to understand the various option you have. Alternatively, I will seek advise from my buddy who is a big shot in MSF(Ministry of social and family), I will try to find out...