Recent content by johnnywalker

Thank you rkygirl. Will try it out. Thanks

You can forgive and forget. Which is what a family shall be like. Not for my wife. She forgive but never forget... At this stage I am still confuse what else can i do to help.

When I got home, will bath and attend my daughter. Unless the she wanted my wife to suck milk. Else most of the time in the evening, I am with her till 8:45pm I hand over to my wife and she will make her to bed. Why not me because only she breastfed her to sleep. I will have my own time from...

This could be the best advise. Yes I need to rethink of myself. I need some guidance. That's why asking for advise. asking for any counseling. You may be right that she may be unhappy of her state now. And I cannot help in anyway to help her because she do not have trust in us. Is not easy and...

Yes, feel like giving up. I am still holding on now.

She already state clearly, If I want to go back with baby, can with her around. I cannot just bring baby out alone. I wish I can help in night feed. But still doing breastfeeding. nothing I can do.

Tried, and she will say she can't stand all this nonsense and want a separation. She said that separate before the child know what is going on. Checkmate again. So decided to look for lights. No one around me can talk to.

I am not trying to get everyone to convince my side of story. It may appear one sided. I just need to know what shall I do when I am under such situation? I am really lost and not able to make anymore decision. Anything I do is wrong, not right, never consider the family..

Also tried to explain to her why my mom stay why she do this and that. But she will say that I am siding my side.. She is not seeing my side of story seriously.

How do I know if she is suffering from post natal depression. Doesn't seems to like one. She behave normal as of now to me. It started when my mom say wanna stay over after cooking her meal as it was already late about 10pm after she check out from the hospital. We agreed that her mom will be...

Baby 1st birthday is coming. Wanted to invite my parents but if anything happen my wife going to make a big fuss. I feel bad if I dun invite them either....

Yes, really seeking for one. Any recommendation?

As i mention she have to be around whenever baby is around..

Cannot be every weekend out for lunch right?

I need a good piece of advise what I shall do. I can feel that I am cornered now. My parents told me is ok if she don't let them see her granddaughter. They would just like me to go over for a dinner that's all. But wife do not expect me to do that.