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There is one way I know it helps but provided your ex husband needs to obtain good credit reports from banks for application like bank loan or apply for credit card.
It's DP Credit Bureau. Sorry quite some time back so I can't exactly remember the details or procedures but you could call...
Hi Affranto
This is the link to a previous thread I share some experiences. I hope it helps you somehow.
I think to an extent, God is good because he opens your eye and let you see the real person your husband is. You need to consider the dangers you are facing or exposing your children to.
I...
My 5 year old, coming to 6 years old just started his K2 in another PCF centre. Due to his previous weak health and sensitive nose, I opt for half day class instead of full day. His previous preschool was shut down due to poor response.
From Jan till now, he was abused more than 1 instance. In...
I do know that you could go AWARE and sign up with DP Credit Bureau and they would send him monthly reminders. If their payment is not prompt or there's outstanding arrears, it would affect their credit report. This would affect their chances of securiing loans.
However this would not aftect...
Some mother in law have that kinda mindset when their son married, they kinda lose that son. Even though that is not true, some cannot change that mindset.
I agree with Dr Tooth. I am not asking you to get into her good books but your husband was most likely brought up and taught to be filial...
Even if you are not officially divorced from him or haven't filed for divorce yet, you could went to the Family Court pay a small fee $1 I think just to lodge a complaint and sue him for not paying maintenance. It would be also great if you have receipts of payments of bills you have made so as...
It depends yes and no but he kinda accepted Christ for me and revert back to his beliefs after marriage.
I was a virgin before marriage. I didn't force him to go for church counselling. But seriously counselling is only helpfulwhen the party is really open to it.
After he was caught redhanded...
When I was at the family court and became a familiar face, one day a volunteer officer who happened to be a lawyer told me there was such a case where this very wealthy guy who made things difficult for his ex wife, never pay her until she file at the family court and when mediation day came, he...
So long as you have a stable job, usually care and control goes to the mother unless they have proof that you have mental illness or prone to violence. That goes for the house too but he might insist that you pay them back for their share of the flat.
You have a disadvantage ie you moved out...
I understand what you are going through but if you give in to their threats, they will have a chance to brainwash your children that you don't care about them. I know your reasons for moving out but children are too young to understand and usually are influenced by the caregiver in this case his...
There could be many reasons such as catinthesky suggested or he has bisexual tendencies. You never know. I know of cases where the couples are both Chrisitians and the guy married the girl just due to parental pressure as a disguise that he is straight. Eventually, the wife found out and...
Hi Xiao Keai
Actually, just curious why you moved out in the first place?
The flat does it have your name in it? Even if not, so long as you have proof that you have been providing financially or paying for expenses, be it the utilities or Singtel bills or whatever, you have a right to the...
My ex-husband default payment thrice in a year despite court order and enforcement. Each time I went back. At the advice of my lawyer, I could apply for attached earnings if he does it again. So now he has no choice but to pay up promptly. The 3rd time he default payment, the court demanded him...
Like you, I have depression and OCD as well as anxiety and has been on medication for a few years before I met my ex-husband. I stopped the medication after getting married as I was concerned that I might get pregnant and it could harm my baby.
My lawyer told me even though I have these...