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    How frequent to have sex is normal

    Most of the time I heard is that, woman lost interest in sex after marriage/kids (especially), and very rarely heard that men will.... From studies, woman can live without sex for years, while men can feel 'hungry' even a month... Something not right in my pov if husband keep rejecting on sex...
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    Seeking honest advise please! Text flirting, cheating, or just talking about past with no agenda?

    Well, it depend on the wife's character. The 'cheeky' words she said, and the 'naughty things' he said may seems 'sexual'. Like said, depending on the wife's character. Cause they may have did 'naughty' things during the trip? Only they themself know. If the wife often use 'cheeky' words to any...
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    Where Do I Go From Here?

    Oh. Much clearer now... Well, do you have proof that he's with another woman outside? If have, maybe you can file for divorce? After divorce, then maybe you can fight for sole custody, and bring your child over to SG.
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    Where Do I Go From Here?

    Had my girl with my then boyfriend and married him but he deserted me 5 years later >> What do you mean by you had your girl with your boyfriend (now hubby), but he deserted you 5 years later? You have divorce with your hubby? Or? Confused over this statement... Why not bring your child to...
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    Divorce Lawyer

    Depending on contested or non-contested. For non-contested, 7-12 k is very ex... Usually most range from 1.6-3k For contested, some can go up to 20-50k depending also. You can try KK Lee Law, PKLaw etc There are quite a number out there Can also refer to below link: Top 16 Firms for the Best...
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    totally not related but i need HELP - how do i remove feelings for my relative

    Well, this is a forum of sharing. There's no right or wrong. You can post whatever you have, and the rest can give advice. Of course some may be harsh and some may be nice. It depending on case to case and how one look at too. The most difficult to control is 'feeling'. So well, sometime it's...
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    totally not related but i need HELP - how do i remove feelings for my relative

    Well, in my opinion, I think if 'crush' is still alright. I mean we all do have crush right? However, as he's your nephew, plus he's much younger than you, probably it's not wise to have 'crush' on him either. It may evolve to 'love', and by then, it will be more difficult for you to get out of...
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    Introducing guys into our marriage life

    Well, I think its a kind of personal choice whether one can accept or not. Like mentioned, there's no right or wrong. It really depending on one's thought and mindset. What I'm curious about is what TS is here for?
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    Introducing guys into our marriage life

    I think it's some sort of open marriage/relationship kind. This is more open/popular in the foreign country, but not really in Singapore. I do know of some couples who had such though. No right or wrong, but for me, definitely cannot accept such...
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    Ladies Only Chat Group

    Thinking to start a chatgroup for LADIES only in Telegram. Mainly for chit chat, relationship/marriage support (if needed), those that are boring (SAHM), or can even organise playground for kids, and/or ladies outing for coffee or meal. As subject mentioned, LADIES only. Those ladies whom are...
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    Emotional blackmail from husband and in-laws to conceive a child through egg donation

    TS, Just a doubt...Read some of your other post and seems you are ok with egg donor. Saw you've been encouraging others to do such. So why aren't you keen or scare of when come to you? Anyway, i do agreed with Mongkok. What if turn out to be a daughter rather than a son? Or what if he still...
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    Hurt and lost

    Ah i see. Then i suggest you better voice out to him asap. No need to meet up also can voice out. See how he react... Though in this case i will suggest you to let go then holding on...
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    Hurt and lost

    Yes. We need emotional to have sexm.. What you mean you don't recall how he look like now? You mean so far you only met him twice? Second time was on bed? Since then you both never meet up?
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    Hurt and lost

    Yes.. we ladies usually will get emotional esp with sex going on. We need the feel in order to have sex, while most men can just have sex without the feel. Maybe can tell him your feel? And see whay his reaction is
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    Hurt and lost

    I agreed with sadgirl85. Based on what TS mentioned, i guess probably he had such experience before. If not, maybe he too having the same thoughts as you? That is slowly develop feelings for you? Why not tell him how you feel? Or give this rs a chance?

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