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vauxie, perhaps you might want to get legal consultation first on whether the evidence you hve is enough. There are some lawyers who offer free consultation or will reimburse the fees for consultsation for the whole package. You need to make sure your daughter living arrangement is...

vauxie, its common for cheating man to just brush things aside and pretend nothing happened and just hide their trails better. Same thing with my case. However, there is small children involve and there are lots of things to plan. e.g. custody, alimony, next time who take care of kid, where...

Vauxie, if you have the hopes that he will repent, then you should confront him and address this and see if you guys can work things out. I can sense that you are in limbo, haveing different feelings over this, anger, hurt, calm, etc. Its normal. Your world just came upside down. Do continue...

yes flower77, thats the feeling I get... He claims he did not want a divorce because he love us but how can some one who keep cheating and lying to you love you? On the groceries part... so far I my helper to help, but I feel it will be hard to do it alone grocery with a toddler unless the...

Seems like lots of you are still working hard on your marriage. My lawyer's finall left the writ for him as he is not home to be serve the petition. He was very work up and refuse to hear of divorce and want to talk for us to work thing out. This is however the 2nd time this happens. More...

Hi all, Just want to share this article. in the end,lets hope we all became stronger and better people from our experiences. http://www.alaskawellness.com/may-june01/relation.htm

I think the situation is not so serious that it warrants divorce. Some communication problems and give and take lah. Birthday: Okay actually cold have celebrate both company even and birthday lah. could have celebrate before the day of during the day not at night. make it very clear lor...

yeah, I asked the Lawyer to delayed serving him when he agreed to go counselling. There was a status conference many months after and although I say I want to proceeed, court order to withdraw and refile cause it had delayed too long. sign. sometimes don understand. want other women but...

hi singlemomeof3, don worry about them. they deserve each other. Who knows they may be cheating on each other too. Important thing is you are free from them already and can concentrate on moving forward. 090301, oh no he still want to contest dispite of all the evidence? I have to refile...

huggzz. Dodo, dying heart, forget me not, 090301. Dodo, I was just at my lawyer's office yesterday and he told me it is possible that I don't pay the CPF money first and then we sell the house when it can be sold. So you might want to check with your lawyer. Check with your lawyer on...

Hi dying heart, the positive part is that he seems to still have some honest communication with you. As long as you guys can talk about it and there is genuine sharing of feelings then there is hope that intimacy can be rebuilt. Mine is in complete denial and tell me I am too imaginative and...

Hi dying heart, Somoetimes, we need to go beyond what he says to understand what kind of man he is. Give it some time first. Like forgetme not say, one and a half months is really a very short time. You still have not got over the shock of discovery. Take some time to understand what you want...

Hi all, Just want to share that sometimes, whether the marriage can be save or not may depend on why the infidelity happens and the character of the spouse. An one off affair that happens because of problems in the marriage etc might be salvagable and the marriage may become stronger. But...

Forgegmenot, yeah I think asian society still have the mind set. I was actually quite surprised when some of the friends I share my story with say pretend you didn know, give him a chance. There are some rational in the advise and perhaps its also because of the believe "quan he bu quan li"...

dying heart, flower Deciding what to do is something we have to do eventually but one thing we need to be sure of is that we have thought carefully about it, rather than leaving in a moment of anger. That said, there is no harm going to the lawyer's office and get consultation and the...