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Hmmm... It's good that your mil restrict their eating. Rather than keep giving your kids rubbish food when they are sick, I rather my mil like your mil. Cough can't eat chicken n fish, I agreed. This also means no fried chicken n fried fish. Good rite?

That day I was reading newspaper.. There was an article abt son ditching his mum and ask her to seek gov for help. Then they were named as unfilial... Sometimes I wonder is there a reason for it before we start saying ppl unfilial. Are we in a way unfilial too? When we dun wan to stay with them.

Maybe we used too strong word 'rubbish'. Ya, overall bf is gd but just hate those that discrimmate those who dun bf. And worst look at, us like we freak cos no milk... We are all mummies. We all wan all the best for our kids.

Very funny rite? Our mil used to be dil too... so why can't they learn the lesson and dun repeat it? In fact I think they not only repeat but improve it. Sometimes feel like scolding mil tat she used to be dil and know how tough it is. So why do the same to me?

Haha very true. I also try to console myself using that. As my inlaw always say its becos I nv give my girl bm tat y she fall sick easy.. sigh.. My mil almost wan to get bm from my cousin becos she has too much.. I very strongly protested.. really strongly fiercefully protested until she give...

Actually I also prefer my kid to sleep with me. This is to lessen their load since my inlaw is taking care of her whole day already. Plus a bit bonding time with my kids. However experience from my sis is her kid is left with my parents since birth. She is very very close to my parents until...

I truly understand ur guilt as I will feel that too. Esp when they fall sick. But we dun hv enough milk means dun hv. I cannot squeeze out more already. So what we can do is to supplement them with vitamins. Many ppl are selling colostrum powder. U can get that to supplement ur kid. It works the...

Go take up some part time jobs. Know some frens. Cos in the end ur fren will appreciate u more than ur hub.. me too hope for a hug after a day of tired work. Dun hv hug even a word of how's ur day also good. He work I also work. But he come home play game. I come home do housework. Who is more...

Truly agreed. Dun care what others say. U r still the best mummy even if you nv breastfeed. I also din breastfeed my kid. But they are still sticky to me. Bonding thru breastfeed? To me is rubbish. Bonding is thru daily communication. Not breastfeed.

I'm also staying together with my in-laws. Guess its nv ending stories.. actually even with own mother, when come to kids sure will quarrel. But own mother quarrel liao next day good again. If mil.. hahaha.. gd luck.. remember for life.. Anyway I think I'm in worst situation. The house is not...

Other than oversea, where to get cheap bcp in singapore? Cos over the gp countet buy is still pretty ex. I was on yasmin previously. I hv sensitive gastric meaning I can't take certain medicine or even food cos it will make me bloated n puke. But this yasmin is gentle on my gastric. I hv no...

I think its too fast to jump to conclusion that the father is wrong. We dun know wat she do or wat he do that cause the marriage to fail. If its the guys wrong, he is very bad to do that. She can counter sue him for restricting the visit. However, I find it weird. If there is no solid...

I also think you should move on. Ask her to move out of your house. Get totally cut off from her. So that you can truly moved on. She can get her boyfriend outside to help her too. You are not the only one who can help her. Better still, she can find a richer men than you and she can truly be...

Sigh... but its not easy. When I look at him I only feel anger... I have been scrimping and scrapping every cents to lessen his burden yet he never blink when he paid $100 to her for her service. Everyday I wear worst than a factory worker to work. And this is what I get? His money is his...

Playful? That's a gd word... but it is so unfair to me... I din even suspect anything until one fine day I caught him looking at porn as I was home early. But dunno y, instead of confronting him, I actually walked away silently... after tat I start to see his hp and find sleazy msg like hi dear...