Recent content by hopelessly lost

Hi Fleurem. It is a painful but I suppose the right decision to end this. He clearly has his own issues. Only five months into the marriage and he has already cheated on you?? Why did he even get married for? From now on, be brave. We will be here to listen to all your woes.

How are you going to suffer through this? Will he shift out or something? Is he even sorry? How are you? After all the anger, you must be so hurt and devastated...

Feel so angry for you!!!! What the heck is his issue?? Meeting random people for sex???

I know... but it’s truly hard to let go. And whatever I do or say is being rejected. Even if I want to try, it’s hopeless and pointless because it seems he is set on moving on without me.

I do know how you feel because I am going through the same thing now. Basically all fault is mine when this relationship is not working. I’m contemplating what you want to do too: live together but lead own life. But the thought of it makes me so sad and hurt. We have so many years together and...

There’s so much bullshit here! And this is so typical of men who cheat. Mine also cheated on me many times and says want to divorce because we are not suitable for each other. I know it’s hard but if you want to prove adultery, you need evidence. And why the heck does he need you to go back to...

And I agree: men behave like this at any age... Probably some women too like the ones I’ve read

If I go through with a divorce, I can probably find my own happiness. For more than a year, I have been alone. He used to fetch me from work but that has stopped since last year when he said he felt Something for his colleague. So since then, I’ve been coping with this myself. He is merely a...

He says there’s no emotional connection with me. Basically nothing I do is right. Probably even the way I breathe irritates the hell out of him. When before, he would be sweet and loving, now he says he did all that because he was just going through the motions. His heart is dead long ago.

I genuinely do not know... been stuck in this rut for so long, I seem to have gotten used to this form of abuse. He shifted out for a few months and then came back saying he will change. But after coming back, he said things are just not working out and he feels that it’s pointless. I have no...

He often brings his device into toilet and stays there for long periods. So long that his children ask why he’s always inside and for so long.

Hi all. I may become a divorcee soon. Husband has had multiple affairs, adulterous and emotional ones. And says he doesn’t love me and just wants freedom. He’s 42 this year. Are men at this age like that? We have three teens and he wants to throw us all away...

Hi ladies... I have a similar problem. Husband recently got close to another colleague at work and is a changed person. Says that is the real him. All these years when he said he loved me, was a pretense. In 2016, we even got a new house together and now awaiting keys then this. And I know from...