Recent content by greentea12

Hi ecym, For me this is the biggest challenge. to blend into the society again, to interact with ppl around you. even till now, I still feel difficult to face those ppl whom I've shared my pregnancy news with. especially those friends/colleagues whose EDD were about the same as mine. I've...

yay! congrates on ur AF! i was exactly like that when seeing AF for the first time after the procedure. like what a relief! but it was a mixed feeling, it also reminded me that i'm no longer pregnant. oh well.. for DOM, i mix 2 spoonful (not tea spoon) of dom and warm water. if u feel it's too...

Hugs to mummies who have just gone thru the traumatic experience :( I have braved myself today to visit this thread again and reading the new stories really upset me... donchelsabb, that time my gynae said AF will return in 4-6 weeks time, so dun worry ya. if after 6 weeks it still doesn't...

Hi all, thanks for the advice and encouragement. I have terminated the pregnancy, after 2nd confirmation from MRI result on the defect of baby's brain. It was the most terrible decision I have made in my life. As it was a very rare defect which the gynae only saw 2 cases in her entire career...

Hi ZealousMav, after my termination, I had bleeding for about 2 weeks, and breast engorgement 2 days after the procedure. it was so painful and unbearable! I event could not sleep at one side cos' it will press on them. I took medicine prescribed by doctor and also use cold compress to ease the...

Hi all, it's been exactly two months since that fateful day. I also had my first cycle of period 2 weeks ago, and it seemed normal just like my usual cycle. I got upset again when I realized I need to use pad again I've scheduled a pap smear and preconception check up on 1 week of July with...

Dear Mummies, I don't know whether there are still ppl reading this thread. I just want to know your views on termination of pregnancy due to baby's abnormalities. As a catholic, what will you do if u found ur unborn baby has defects?

Beverly, #hugs# thanks for your encouragement! I'm really determined now to have another healthy & normal baby. now I just pray hard and trying to be positive and hopeful, keep myself healthy & fit. I even visited TCM to build up my health. I will do anything for the sake of getting...

Brave mummies, I just want to share with u some encouraging quotes here, it strikes me when i was browsing thru facebook: "If someone or something comes into your life and has a positive impact on you, but for some reason things change, don’t mourn for too long. Be thankful that your paths...

BBangel, I also requested for 4 weeks leave. so I'll return to work in 2 weeks time. Dun worry dear, the karyotype result will be alright, i'll pray for u too! Pooja, *hugs* for u. I miss my baby too and wanted him back so much. such a torture..

BBangel, there are indeed insensitive and ignorant ppl out there.. i'm also worried how would my colleagues treat me after two weeks when I return to work ok, actually my bleeding has stop yesterday (12 days) and no foul smell or cramping during recovery. so maybe that's why she was sure...

Dear all, Just wondering did u go for the jamu massage after m/c or stillborn? Do our uterus displaced even we did not carry bb to full term? If so then I was thinking to engage the jamu massage to get the uterus back into place.. I just went back to the gynae for check up. she only touched...

Monster, my hubby too seems to recover in few days time, he can sleep well at night too. however he will tear also whenever he sees me crying, he said he feel sad whenever he sees me so sad.. so dun blame your hubby ok? I think most men are like that cos they r not the one who carry the baby...

Hi BBangel, thanks for your words of comfort. Yes I did read your story in the earlier post, which leaves the deepest impression cos it was like reading my own story! *hugs* I cried too as I read yours. I also went thru forums to search for the same encounter as mine but to no avail. And all I...

Dear all brave mummies, I have been reading this thread since 30 April 2013, after I left the hospital with no baby in my arms... At 20-week detailed scan, it was a normal Monday and hubby and I happily went for the appointment, excited to see our growing baby and its movement, as well as to...