I am a full time working mum too, i mopped my floor twice a day, morning before i leave for my work and also when i got home after work. Not that i am hardworking but i got 3 children at home, cleanliness very important.
Many people trying so hard to conceive yet you thought of ending your pregnancy[emoji20]. Daughter also equally cute. Bb also can't chose who to be their parents too.
After I gave birth to my baby gal last year, my company also did not give me 13th month bonus, they said is not a must. As for the performance bonus I also don't entitled, reason given to me was due to my 16weeks maternity leaves so i don't perform well during my leaves.
I have 2 boys and always prefer boy than gal, find that boy is more easy to handle as in no need to doll them up like princess. Until I have a baby gal. Just be thankful all of them are healthy don't really matter boy or gal.