Recent content by emmaconfused

i wish i could be stronger too. @strongmummy82 u are strong indeed to take the step into divorce, but what you say is true too - would one be happier after divorce? I do not think I will be happier if i have to look after and pay for the kids myself, bear with embarrassment, worry about housing...

Can't blame you gooseberry. Each of you have different definition to happiness as a couple. He might just be comfortable the way he is, perhaps he is tired after a hard day's work and all he enjoys is the peace and serenity. While for you, you might prefer cuddles and intimacy and such...

It's always about the kids that keeps us mums from walking away to our personal happiness, even if it's right in front of our eyes. Perhaps when the kids are grown up, will we have the courage. But by then, we might have become jaded already (and probably too old to seek a second chance)...