Recent content by Dilemma82

Hello! Have pm-Ed u :)

Very well said, can’t agree more

Yes agreed. I think I have passed the test by staying with him during all his crisis and lowest points in life but I never received his consoling, encouragement when I needed him the most

And he did mentioned to me on why he is treating me so cold was because he got no face to see me, he feels I deserve someone better. I should let go and look for someone who can give me happiness. Despite all the hardship, I chose to keep the family together. But now, he is more stable, earning...

Hi, I think I focus too much on him and the kid that I neglected myself. When he was facing career crisis, it was just me alone who needs to pay all those bills, I have to be frugal to keep the family going, can’t be like in the past spend money buy new clothes, makeup skincare etc, I also sold...

I think if that happened, no need to work on the marriage, just divorce. That will be the biggest humiliation for a woman

Difficult, I wouldn’t want to look desperate. If I initiated, it seemed I’m forcing him. If he pushes me away, things will look even uglier

Ok it’s not possible for me to dress like how he always like in the past as I was always on heels but ditch them after kid for convenience sake. I used to like tight sexy dresses but after becoming a mum, I don’t think it’s right or appropriate to dress like how I used to be. Now I wear sneakers...

How to? I admit I do gain a bit of weight after pregnancy cause I also gotten thyroid after preggy. It may not be easy for me to lose pounds back to pre pregnancy stage. But if it’s due to this that he loses interest in me then it shows he is v shallow

Thanks for your advice. This coming nov is our 5th year anniversary. I probably have a talk and run through the list with him on the day

Ya I would think so. Last Xmas we went for a turnaround trip to Bangkok without my daughter. Maybe in a foreign land, he started to hold my hand and hug me during the BTS ride. For movie we have been avoiding due to covid, even pre covid we went for movie we also don’t talk, just watch movie and...

Anw how to communicate the terms and condition prior to filing? I can’t just write down what I want and discuss with him before filing correct as he will not listen and will not think I have the guts to do so. Does anyone know is there any window period that he needs to sign the paper to be...

Hi Cindy, the contested div is that’s what I’m afraid of as it will turn ugly and nasty and v costly. He is still his own boss now and his job is covid proof. Moreover he has been making quite a fair bit, 6 figures or so from the stock market. I’m concerned that what if during the div, he reduce...

I have no choice but to threaten a marriage by issuing the lawyer letter to make him talk. Otherwise I cannot continue to suffer and this has impacted on my daughter’s well being. There are many occasions that my 3 year old daughter will tell him off like ‘u cannot shout at my mama’ despite we...

Hi Cindy, Thanks for your advice! I’m 38 and he is 41, so we are both very matured to start a family. I have attempted many times to talk to him, it’s either he kept silence or he will simply say he does not know why is he treating me that way. I dunoe whether is it due to psychological...