Hihi I am also a first time mummy but with the help of confinement lady that I hear and see from my friends she will help to take care of the baby need. Like how to bath them feed them and ensure u have sufficient rest at night. If you are engaging cl no need to outsource confinement meals as...
I guess when you go for your check you will be able to see a little blinking dot. That is the heartbeat according to my gynae. Just relax and think positive. My spotting is also on off . Gynae prescribe me folic utrogestan and casprin.