Frankly, I am not sure if she is close to me, when she is angry, she will always lash out at me, if she is angry with my brother, she will somehow create trouble with me just to quarrel.
I did, she doesnt want to listen. She still sides her daughter in law. Plus, my husband's education isnt as good as her. My mother told me he doesnt have a backbone.
I am in conflict, my mother is always picking on my husband for being lazy etc sometimes even saying it in front of his face. But when the daughter in law does the exact same thing and in fact worse, she does not say a single word?
Please advise