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If I dun have kid I would have file for divorce. Seriously. Reason is I have no more trust with this man. I have warned him before when I found out he send mushy apps with his girl friends. And now this photography, he has obviously show disrespect with his wife. What's the meaning to continue...

Hi Wendy. Do u mean u want to share your husband with other woman? If he suddenly comes to u n tells u he love that woman more n wants to leave u. What will u do?

Hi my instincts tells me, I like the way u phase it. I'm in the same situation like u. We always have to think of family n kids but they can fool around like they have no responsibility to them. If u ask me if I still love him. My answer is yes. But the hurt is too deep that I can't put down n...

I don't have milk..... My bb doesn't want to latch. I tried pumping but only have abit. I pump until my breast was like out of shape n pain.... Still no milk. I even had the supplement to increase the milk but still no use. Really dun know how. As I'm going back to work therefore I also stop...

I haven spoke to him for days. Only when my mum is around. When we r alone, I din reply any of his question unless he is asking about bb. I really can't face it. I'm still viewing at the pics he took. How?? How long u all have took to forgive? And move as normal....... I feel very sad when I...

Thanks for the comfort. Yes. This is the only place where I can vent out. Sometimes I even cry when I having lunch (alone) n sometimes in the train. I really cannot stop crying. I have to hide my face from the public....... If u happen to see a woman crying..... Ya that might be me.

Yes. As mention, it's really hard for me to think that they really din do anything else. Even do he keeping saying he didn't. He did admit doing this is quite prevert but he didn't do any unfaithful action. Every night when we r resting. He will laid beside me keep saying sorry, swear to me if...

Before I found out him cheating. I had my fortune read. The master told me to bear him more kids n our relationship will get better n better. And I was planning to have 2nd one soon cos of my age. But after knowing this, I have given up the idea....... I can't even talk to him when we r alone.

He said he forgot when he took the first one.......Obviously he is still trying to hide. He doesn't like to go out with his friend often but his working hours r not fixed. He has to travel to places n sometime he has to stay overnight to set up system for his company. Frankly speaking, he...

That was his second time taking sexy pics seeing naked woman. It was through Facebook. He did not use his own name n pic. He likes to takes pic and want it to be his hobby. He told me he regrets what he did and he never expect me to so upset as he only just want to take pics. He said that will...

U too. Be strong. We sure can live better without them.

As u mention think for the bb. I'm still thinking..... Hard. He ask me to wait n see how he change for me. Haiz..... Only guys got the privilege of getting second chance if we being unfaithful will they give us chance?

What's your plan?? Do u still love him? Have u went to AWARE?

This is a very good quote I found in 16quotes.com "It takes a strong heart to love but it takes a stronger heart to continue to love after it's been hurt."

Yes I know my bb is still so small. But I really do feel hurt. I feel that I look like a freak compared to that sexy model. I have lost all my confident. My parents was staying with me currently to watch the maid so that I can go back to work. I dun want them to worry for me. 好辛苦，can't even cry...