I can understand how you feel. I faced this about 10 yrs ago. It was devastating and i couldnt sleep at night. Apparently, my mum also knew about it before i did. (He had a few affairs). Later on I couldn't stomach how he treated my mum and me and i told him what i knew, hoping he will change...
I am very disappointed with Dr Adrian..
There was once hub and i, both are down with diarrhea. Mine was more serious than hub's and i was in my 2nd trimester. My hub's GP ended up being way more detailed than Dr Adrian. Hub's GP took time to check his tummy, source of contamination n asked him...
Juniorbee, my doc also wanted me to c sect on 37th week but my husband has some important meetings then. So i guess it is ok if doctors suggest that. So hopefully my baby cooperates and stay inside till 38th week! :p