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You need to be firm he can only choose one person, and tell him you are willing to forgive him and work on a solid marriage if he comes back to you. You may be too weak to make this stand as you still have feelings for him and you are afraid he chooses the other person. But as many people have...

It's possible your husband has a medical issue with his sexual abilities. Men are protective of the appearance to "perform". When they are not able, they rather not do it for fear of losing face. As a result he may use porn or even prostitutes as they cannot or wont judge him. You may want to...