Recent content by be tan

New member browsing; up your thread. Good luck.

Best course of action. Becasue you'll stop it before it gets into a bigger mess for both the husband and the wife.

I dont think husbands want their wives to change after marriage and kids. Not me definitely. Cos then she wont be the gal I married!

How sad! Not good, kana; good also kana. Women are not the only party in a marriage with anxieties. Men get white hair too, although not the emotional type worries. They worry if she'll still love him, cook and look after the kids, and most importantly, whether she'll continue to have sex with...

Wow! Then it's the start of trouble. Sex is part of marriage. Hell, you produce children through sex. Question is why is the wife not interested in sex? And if so, she must be prepared to let the husband get it outside. Just make sure he doesnt have sex with his girl friends as youre sure to...

Sad. Why do you think you are doing men a favour bearing children for men? Did you not want children when you were making babies? Women will always suffer their figures with child birth (except Heidi Klum!) and men will also get pot belly with age (if they dont go to the gym etc) so equalise out...

Why stick it out? The way you're writing about him, you'll never ever get back with him again as before. Best start anew.

Alamak! I must post in response despite your post being in Oct long ago. Men diy for convenience. If you see yr guys diy in shower, get in and save your marriage. There is also Viagra etc to help create good erections if he has the desire for you. If a guy "is tired", he is simply not...

Men also the suffering party. He got into a happy marriage but after 3 kids, his wife refused to have sex, so the poor chap is at his wits' end. And getting ribbed by his frens and also some bad advice like trying to set him up with other women, or trying to get him to go for paid sex. Just to...

Please be very careful in your future search for a partner. From what you have posted you seem to be rushing in your search. You have been too tolerant despite his mean attitude to you and your son. Right up to post #47 you got back together with him (not the other way round cos you didnt say...

Did you tell him you need him to fetch you to see a doctor, or did you just tell him you were ill and hoped he would drop his plans and come back to fetch you to the clinic? Men and women think differently; and in serious medical situations, both must be forthright. He probably thought that you...