Recent content by atthexroad

Thanks everyone for your inputs. :) Gooseberry, Your bf is very nice to you already. Still set aside 5k for expenses. Hope you guys have a wonderful and enjoyable trip! I have never expect my partner to support me. I’m more than happy to contribute. What irks me is the fact that he never puts...

Hi gooseberry He is retired but is a multi-millionaire so I don’t think he is financially insecure. Like I said I really don’t mind eating local fare cause to me as a couple, it’s more important to care for each other. And yes I’m quite financially sound but of course nowhere close to his...

Oh wow. Your description sounds so much like my bf! Yes! He also gave me same reason for booking movie tickets. Said he don’t know how to book. So I’ll always get the tickets and he’ll get dinner. Mine will still give me gifts but practical ones instead of romantic. Which is why I’m really...

Hi Gooseberry, You probably got the advises from the other ppl. And I agree with them as well. There must always be a give and take. Unless your bf is Super rich, to expect him to pay for your air tix and shopping is a little over board. And I think it’s ok that he said upfront that he pays...

chubbybaby2, I haven't decided what to do but after hearing all the comments and getting rid of the voices in my mind, I'm starting to feel that it's better to just leave things as it is. If you read the other comments, I am very firm with my stand, just that I want to seek proper closure. If I...

ash11, after reading your case, mine is nothing compared to it. It's just a matter of emotions that I have to learn to accept and let go. After all you've been thru, please always love yourself first. The fact that WP is violent is something worrying. A man who loves his woman will never ever...

ash11, whatever is done is done. We can't reverse it. The only thing to do is to embrace the present and move forward. Ask yourself why did you allow it to happen? Was it worth it? What will you do in your next relationship? On a brighter tone, it doesn't sound like you had a happy marriage...

catinthesky, thanks for all your kind advises. It has helped me alot to pull thru this week with all those voices in my head. God bless your heart. bretrayed, that was exactly what was in my head all the time which was why I was fighting with him alot and tried to cut ties with him. I was very...

catinthesky, that's very nice of you to help analyze my issue. And you seem to read what's in my mind. Call me stubborn or strong willed. I prefer to have an answer so I can tell myself to move on. I think it's just the woman in us that we don't want to live with unanswered questions...

Everyone, I'm extremely grateful for your inputs, especially one that I'm not being judged being putting myself in this situation. I know I'm out of my mind and conscience pricks me everyday. I just don't understand how he can walk away with no remorse, no guilt, no feelings and here I am...

cabbiemum, you spoke what my heart says! The ending was so impromptu which is why it's keeping me in limbo. Is it really best to bury it quietly or seek confrontation even if the answers are going to be nasty?

catinthesky, thanks. Sometimes it's just easier said than done. And when you're faced with moments of silence, you start to think of the series of events that happened. How, why, when, what if? Many a times I want to seek confrontation to get some answers. If he tell me it was all just fun and...

catinthesky, not exactly a 100% happy marriage. Of course there are efforts put into it. There are ups and downs. That is why during the downs, I got sucummbed to this guy's sweet words. You are right. I am over-analyzing things. And this is the sole reason why I'm venting it out here cause I...

gooseberry, I never expect any future. In fact I was ready to accept him as a friend. It's like a habitual thing. How can you suddenly just stop talking when we used to talk daily? Like what shoppixe said, maybe he already found another "soulmate" in his new office. In that way, I feel so used...

shoppixe, timmerin, thanks for hearing me out. that's the kind of knock out statement I need to get myself out of this. But we all know that sometimes the human's heart is not as strong as it is. I just wanted to know if I should at least text him and apologize for cursing him. It's more of...