Recent content by annie_annie

Generally if the marriage is sexless, the person hating the sex, regardless of gender, should at least allow the other party to find professional services outside of marriage. If a guy hates the sex and his wife wants sex, he should at least allow her to seek sex from other guys if he love her...

best to divorce a gambler asap. it's one of those unforgiveable addiction (drugs and alcoholism are the others) that addicts simply can't quit.

If you are okay with him finding professional help (i.e. prostitutes), then nothing's wrong. You don't have sex with him so you won't catch any STDs.

Finally, are you a PR by marriage? If you are, high chance, he can claim you use him to get PR via marriage. So be careful when raising divorce. My advice is seek marriage counselling.

Have you considered alternatives like marriage counselling or trying to understand why he want to find professional sex worker instead of finding you for sex? Have you considered alternate arrangements like he can go out find sex but cannot touch you sexually (at least protect you from STDs)...

I was born in a "large" family and have 2 other younger siblings at home. Being the eldest, I was always the one who kena all the arrow. Now, first I should clarify that I do not hate my parents but it's not like I'm very close with them either. Being born in the sandwich generation, I didn't...