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The procedure is quite daunting for a layperson. Do it if you have time to prepare docs and also be prepared to go to the courts numerous times. Weigh that against spending legal cost of say 2-3k.

Usually there is no difference. But assuming that he was so into the third party relationship to the point that he was an absent father, and not around mostly, then arguably that will tilt the balance in favour of the mother in terms of efforts spent on the children. also, the fact the marriage...

No difference. Unless the adultery leads to a reduction of his contributions to the marriage.

The law allows for husbands to be served even if they cannot be found. If for example you can show that he is living with his mom but is avoiding you, service can be effected there. Workplace is another alternative or even email if you can show that he is using that account. Even FB is now...

http://www.straitstimes.com/singapore/courts-crime/doctor-and-ex-wife-charged-with-hacking-each-others-laptops Published Aug 19, 2016, 7:30 pm SGT Facebook1,382 Twitter Email Selina Lum SINGAPORE - A couple, who are now divorced, have been separately charged for hacking into each other's laptop...

Just an observation - hacking into spouses' gadgets is actually a criminal offence.

hi, joint custody simply means that both of you share decisions on legal matters of medical, education and religion. It is totally different from care and control which go towards the practical day to day living arrangements including who the child is living with. If you are afraid that H will...

The divorce part, if that ever comes is the procedural burial and to me a consequence. The main and more important issue is now, looking to solve the issue of there being no passion from my vantage.

Hi, Gpgt99 .. sorry to hear about the proceedings. Did he talk to you before launching the legal proceedings? I will definitely engage with my wife before taking any step so drastic. I want to engage and solve this if I can. My main concern in not resolving this now is that 3, 5 or 10 years...

The irony is that I hope that a therapist can somehow turn me around. I know that my mind is messed up now, and I know that I need time to unravel this. There were may times when I wanted to speak with my wife, but I was concerned that I do not have the answers and things once said, cannot be...

Pixie, you are right on how I feel about XX years remaining and now the concern is that I will spend those years not being fulfilled or unhappy. At the same time, when I talk to friends about ending the marriage, I broke down and felt a mountain of guilt towards my wife who did not do anything...

I have thought of bringing a child or even a pet, although some part of me thinks that it is good in the sense of a joint project, I wonder if it will then merely be a distraction or plastering over unresolved issues on my part. Hence I feel that that I should settle my issues first, and if that...

Dear all, The starting point for my reassessment could be a midlife crisis; at 46 years old I am questioning what do I want until the end of my days. Thrown into this equation is that I am now acknowledging that this feeling of the marriage being passionless is unfortunately not new to me, and...

Dear all, Thanks for the views. To gooseberry, I am not sure if staying on for the children is the best thing, although I would say that recently a friend told me that she wished that her own mother had divorced earlier and avoided more years of unhappiness than wait for her (my friend) to...

Perhaps let me try a different tack. I think the wife is now quite happy (content) with me and the state of affairs. But I have a growing discontent, which I am trying to reconcile. I will see a therapist about this. What I am seeking is, from the wives out there, what you think if your...