Recent content by ajollyaffair

Yes I know what you mean. I don't know how your baby is, if let's say your baby is cranky and fussy because he/she wants to be cuddled and carried all the time, then maybe you can get a carrier/wrap for your helper so she can sling him/her in the house so he/she won't fuss and maybe she can...

I went with RC Employment Pte Ltd

Also if I may add, if you ask the helper whether they can look after baby, cook, clean, iron etc...they may tell you they can, because they want the job and maybe they really think they can. But my advice is, decide which is more important -- if you want a helper to clean and cook, then...

The reason for transfer maids is because they have experience working in Singapore, so they have no illusions of what it is like working here. They also tend to be less emotional, having already learnt how to deal with missing family from home and also likely to know how to cook based on their...

I will recommend Confinement Angels. My auntie was very experienced, and she helped sleep train my son so I have an easier time now managing 2 kids. Also, they do all the proper paperwork so auntie doesn't get into trouble with ICA.

Can I just suggest that you don't stress yourself trying to establish a routine? My first daughter was like that, I couldn't grasp her timing, and there was no routine. She was cluster feeding, wants to nurse to sleep, can't put her down, and well basically, there were good days and bad days for...

I've been through it, feeling the way you did, and I'm glad to say that I've emerged with greater clarity on how to avoid it. It's very important to be able to have your own pursuits, whether it's a hobby or job, because then you will feel invigorated and inspired. We only have so much time, so...

Yes, I have engaged a helper to look after my baby and I have left her alone at home with no CCTV. I think it might be helpful for you to consider transfer maids, and make sure you interview them face to face if possible, so you get a feel of their personalities. I think the trust is mutual...