u know i pushed my lawyer to send warning letters to his lawyer.. and those letters we sent will file as a record in affidavits to the court.
Quite effective cos it is showing how unreasonable he is.
But i also paid alot for those letters via faxes to his lawyer too. If we think of our child, i think it is worth it. If you ask me to weigh between money and my child, i would rather beg on the street and fork out all money i have to fight back my child.
In sg, most of the cases we have joint custody but care and control to the mother. Do not let this case drag longer, as mentioned... the longest days the child stays with him.. chances of getting him back is rather slim.
Btw, do take care of yourself.. hving a healthy body and mindset are extremely important.. to you now! Jia you, MOMMY!