Hi everyone, thinking of a divorce with my spouse for unreasonable behavior.
We have 2 children, 1 boy n 1 girl.
If we are to fight for custody for the 2 children, will the Judge normally give custody for the boy to the Father and the girl to the Mother.
Is that always the case or based on case to case basis on how the custody will be given??
Anyone know or can share your advise?
Thank you
I m also thinking of divorce but i dun think it is the best way out when kids r involved as it is going to cause them great hurt and impact greatly on their future. I think the judge will not separate the kids and they will place priority on the interests of the children. I also cant live with my child's father but am staying put for my child's sake. I have grown sick of him and i feel i have no more feelings for this kind of man anymore. He only knows how to criticise on wat kind of a wife am i. Jus becoz i m a stay at home mum, it doesnt give him any right to look down on me. I will remember wat he said to me until the day i die. I will bring wat he said to my grave.
Hi both, it is really no chances anymore to go for divorce... how about talk it out or go for some counseling course... I know sometime due to man ego, like to say some words without thinking through their brain that hurt us unintentionally.
Linwong, I admire those sahm, it is not easy... he must be feel content that you help him managed the house while he can concentrate on his career. I am ftwm, no helper & have to manage 2 toddlers. My hubby work shift, sometime say some words that hurt me too.. Got one time, I feel it is too much, I just talk out my feeling, after that incident, he "cut down" the hurting words, we even argue over $$... I often tell myself due to his shift work, just quick temper & let it go... don't put all the hard feeling in your heart, you won't feel happy... try to relax ur mind.
I start think that I shld save $$ for raining day, can't only wait for hubby.. so I start to do my online business while working full time, knowing it is hard to manage so many things on hand, but at least I can spend additional $$ for myself & kids, I feel more contented & achievement.
It is always good to talk out your frustration, stress... Good luck... stay strong...