soulutions
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Let me introduce myself & my hubby: Im 35 and hes 38, married for 10 yrs this Dec. When we got married, our careers were more important then for 4 yrs before we said we were ready to start a family. Well, as it turns out, it wasnt as easy as we thought it would be and as they say, the rest is history. Ive been diagnosed with endometriosis and low progesterone and my hubby with varicocele, aka low count and low motility. Read on and well continue with our introduction at the end.
Have you been facing infertility alone as an individual or a couple? Finding it difficult to cope when none of your friends can understand or they somehow always seem to say the wrong things? These are the difficulties we have been facing which inspired me to start SOULUTIONS, an on-line support group for couples in the same boat after meeting several couples in person and online.
I dont know if you agree but I think it is just so important to talk about our difficulties and frustrations and to find strength and inspiration from those around us. It really does help. Some of you, as Ive discovered along the way, may find it easier to talk about it online vs being in a physical group.
There are numerous threads and sites where we can rant and rave but after a while, discussions start to go in the same circle so I think its important to take it a step further. The purpose of Soulutions is to provide structured group support to couples/individuals. Infertility does 2 things to marriages: makes it stronger or tears it apart. Lets help each other make our marriages stronger.
Topics for discussion will be posted weekly or bi-monthly (depending on response rates) in order to help us share and cope with the various stages of discovering and coping with infertility. We will also share book titles, websites, upcoming talks, etc, which could value-add to the development of this support group.
The main aim for this support group is that we will all be happy again as a couple, with or without becoming parents.
This thread will be supported by several professionals who have very kindly agreed to guide us psychologically and medically without any biasness.
As this is a support group and not a commercially-driven nor a religiously-driven thread, it is important that the medical professionals do not make any personal recommendations or comments about doctors and hospitals and I hope likewise, that you will refrain from recommending doctors and hospitals.
Enough said, lets begin!
Which stage of acceptance are you at? Did you just discover that you and/or your spouse is (partially/fully) infertile? How are you coping?
Have you been facing infertility alone as an individual or a couple? Finding it difficult to cope when none of your friends can understand or they somehow always seem to say the wrong things? These are the difficulties we have been facing which inspired me to start SOULUTIONS, an on-line support group for couples in the same boat after meeting several couples in person and online.
I dont know if you agree but I think it is just so important to talk about our difficulties and frustrations and to find strength and inspiration from those around us. It really does help. Some of you, as Ive discovered along the way, may find it easier to talk about it online vs being in a physical group.
There are numerous threads and sites where we can rant and rave but after a while, discussions start to go in the same circle so I think its important to take it a step further. The purpose of Soulutions is to provide structured group support to couples/individuals. Infertility does 2 things to marriages: makes it stronger or tears it apart. Lets help each other make our marriages stronger.
Topics for discussion will be posted weekly or bi-monthly (depending on response rates) in order to help us share and cope with the various stages of discovering and coping with infertility. We will also share book titles, websites, upcoming talks, etc, which could value-add to the development of this support group.
The main aim for this support group is that we will all be happy again as a couple, with or without becoming parents.
This thread will be supported by several professionals who have very kindly agreed to guide us psychologically and medically without any biasness.
As this is a support group and not a commercially-driven nor a religiously-driven thread, it is important that the medical professionals do not make any personal recommendations or comments about doctors and hospitals and I hope likewise, that you will refrain from recommending doctors and hospitals.
Enough said, lets begin!
Which stage of acceptance are you at? Did you just discover that you and/or your spouse is (partially/fully) infertile? How are you coping?