Rains,
I think our kids are now of the age that is quite difficult to handle. When they were younger, they were quite ok to let their parents decide for them what/when to do. Now they want to make their own decisions but are often not capable of doing so for various reasons. And sometimes we as parents try too hard to prevent them from making mistakes.
I believe they do understand that it is important to do well for exams but there are too many distractions and probably more school activities which tire them out, hence they long to do anything except study.... 心有余而力不足.
I think our kids are now of the age that is quite difficult to handle. When they were younger, they were quite ok to let their parents decide for them what/when to do. Now they want to make their own decisions but are often not capable of doing so for various reasons. And sometimes we as parents try too hard to prevent them from making mistakes.
I believe they do understand that it is important to do well for exams but there are too many distractions and probably more school activities which tire them out, hence they long to do anything except study.... 心有余而力不足.