I just did my d&c a few days ago.im 22 this yr and just got married. And thoughT this little life in me was a present for my marriage. I was doing well during my 8 weeks of pregnancy. 14th dec was suppose to be my day for a check up with my gynae for week 12 of pregnancy. But just one day before iti was bleeding. Not spotting but bleeding. I was shocked. Lucky that my husband is at home.
I rushed down to my gynae and found out that my fetus stopped growing at week 9. And there was no heartbeat. I was so devastated. Everything was well during my 8 weeks of pregnancy. Then my doc told me my fetus was abnormal therefore it can't survive through.
I'm really worried now because, I'm afraid it was my womb which isn't good enough for my fetus to survive. And worried that having d&c can cause 2nd miscarriage. I don't think I can handle anymore miscarriage. everyone kept saying I'm still young. I should be able to handle this pregnancy well.
My family was so upset. We had to cancel all our holiday trips. And i have to pretend to be strong. But at times really can't hold back my tears. Ineed my husband to be at home with me to keep me occupy.
Can anyone advice me what to do in order to avoid another miscarriage cos we have the intention of trying for another baby in few months time. But yet I'm afraid my uterus will be too weak for it to handle.
I really miss my baby. I felt that something is missing in my life now. I dont work and I avoid most housework when I'm pregnant. The only thing I did wrongly was eating too much cold food. Ice cream, cold drinks, junk food. I did not eat much of the food that is good to me. Only once in a while plus I was too busy with my wedding.
Could eating too much of a cold food cause my miscarriage. My mum said my uterus is too cold. And I have very regular period and it usually last for 3 to 5 days only. They aren't very heavy flow. My cramps only last for a day. But I do have bad pms.
I reallyneed some good advice on how to gain back my health and confidence for my next pregnancy.
God bless to all.