lainelaine, agree with i1BB. Find a doc whose skills u trust. I've had successful laps done b4 and they aren't really that scary. Alternatively, if u prefer a less invasive method, can try to go for a saline sonogram first. They'll insert saline water into ur uterine cavity to check for abnormal growths like polyps. If all goes well, then maybe u can proceed with IVF with less worry. That said, a lap can detect more than the sonogram can. In the end, it's up to u and ur DH to decide what course of action is best for u.