Vivaforever3112
New Member
Just wondering for working mums who let your in laws and/or helper to take care of your kid, how did u deal with the insecurities of your child growing closer to them instead of you?
My daughter seems to prefer my helper - she stops crying and falls asleep when my helper carries her. Doesn't help that my in laws recognize that helper can calm baby down better than I do, and would auto pass my kid to helper instead of me when she cries.
I read forums saying that the kid will eventually grow closer to mum as they grow older. Is this true? Anyone with similar experoence, pls share! I am feeling very sad seeing my own kid prefer others than her own mother... I stopped latching n pumping milk to bottle feed her. So I lost the latching time to bond too....
My daughter seems to prefer my helper - she stops crying and falls asleep when my helper carries her. Doesn't help that my in laws recognize that helper can calm baby down better than I do, and would auto pass my kid to helper instead of me when she cries.
I read forums saying that the kid will eventually grow closer to mum as they grow older. Is this true? Anyone with similar experoence, pls share! I am feeling very sad seeing my own kid prefer others than her own mother... I stopped latching n pumping milk to bottle feed her. So I lost the latching time to bond too....