Hi mummies,
Just to share my share abit here.I have gone D/C early last year when my baby was 12 weeks old due to some defects.It was a painful memory for me and husband as this unexpected news since this is my 1st pregnancy.
I rememeber very clearly it was few days before my birthday when I have to do D/C.The nite before the D/C, my husband and I even hugged ourselves and cried so hard to say goodbye to our little baby.That was the hardest nite I have went through in my whole life.
Actually that time,it took me 7 months to conceive.I think main reason is I don't ovulate every cycle.
After My D/C last year, I did about 20 days mini confinement.My gynae did advise ask me don't drag for too long, try after 2 cycles.But I was not successful.Cos I realise my menses all gone haywire.Sometimes , it drag till more than 40 days. And sometimes, it may be as early as 14 days.I really cannot calculate when I actually ovulate.After that, I decide to go to seek TCM after 4 months of fruitless try . But my TCM also doesn't help much.After stopping for abt 2 months. I realize I am pregnanct again , yes naturally and I am into my 23 weeks of pregnancy now.I think to be STRESS FREE is very important, cos it took me another round of 8 months to conceive successfully this time as I almost give up.Cos, when you have no more burden, your body will adapt to relaxation which help alot in conceiving.
Eat more healthy and if possible get prenatal vitamins as once your body has all essential vitamins, it help to geared up your body and your body will be more "bu" and it is easier for pregancy.
I ever read from somewhere that it is not when after your pregnancy then you started to dump all vitamins for the baby as it is too late.Do it if possible 3 months before conceiving to ensure a healthy pregnancy.Not trying to say all vitamins will have miracle. Sometimes it depends on generic issues also.But why not have a good start as to keep ourselves healthy first.
Lastly, I want to encourage mummies who have lost their baby.Don't ever give up,Seek for gynae's help if possible and I am sure you will hold your little bundle of joy very soon !! Baby dust to all !
Just to share my share abit here.I have gone D/C early last year when my baby was 12 weeks old due to some defects.It was a painful memory for me and husband as this unexpected news since this is my 1st pregnancy.
I rememeber very clearly it was few days before my birthday when I have to do D/C.The nite before the D/C, my husband and I even hugged ourselves and cried so hard to say goodbye to our little baby.That was the hardest nite I have went through in my whole life.
Actually that time,it took me 7 months to conceive.I think main reason is I don't ovulate every cycle.
After My D/C last year, I did about 20 days mini confinement.My gynae did advise ask me don't drag for too long, try after 2 cycles.But I was not successful.Cos I realise my menses all gone haywire.Sometimes , it drag till more than 40 days. And sometimes, it may be as early as 14 days.I really cannot calculate when I actually ovulate.After that, I decide to go to seek TCM after 4 months of fruitless try . But my TCM also doesn't help much.After stopping for abt 2 months. I realize I am pregnanct again , yes naturally and I am into my 23 weeks of pregnancy now.I think to be STRESS FREE is very important, cos it took me another round of 8 months to conceive successfully this time as I almost give up.Cos, when you have no more burden, your body will adapt to relaxation which help alot in conceiving.
Eat more healthy and if possible get prenatal vitamins as once your body has all essential vitamins, it help to geared up your body and your body will be more "bu" and it is easier for pregancy.
I ever read from somewhere that it is not when after your pregnancy then you started to dump all vitamins for the baby as it is too late.Do it if possible 3 months before conceiving to ensure a healthy pregnancy.Not trying to say all vitamins will have miracle. Sometimes it depends on generic issues also.But why not have a good start as to keep ourselves healthy first.
Lastly, I want to encourage mummies who have lost their baby.Don't ever give up,Seek for gynae's help if possible and I am sure you will hold your little bundle of joy very soon !! Baby dust to all !
