Hi, i'm pregnant for 18+wks who been through miscarriages n nw get pregnant again but with complication like placenta previa with bleeding. Currently going through alot of emotional feeling. I feel like sitting on a roller coaster again. Sometime positive coz I'm pregnant again but keep hving alot of negatives bcoz of my history n current situation. I'm very scare n loss. Anyone been through this too? Care to share so that we can support each other. Thx.
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Hi ros00, are you on bedrest? I had spotting past my first trimester as well and also go through roller coaster. I think pregnancy in itself is a giant step of faith, so it's normal to feel up and down. Just stay positive and try to do the best you can, like resting and putting up legs more.
Try not to focus too much on it, do the best you can and I trust God will take care of the rest. Relax k and do something you like for yourself eg treat yourself to a nice meal, listen to soothing music or do a facial mask.
Try not to focus too much on it, do the best you can and I trust God will take care of the rest. Relax k and do something you like for yourself eg treat yourself to a nice meal, listen to soothing music or do a facial mask.
Hi Seaturtle,
Ya, I'm on bedrest. And bleeding has not stop for more than 1wk. Ur bleeding is cause by? Are u on bedrest throughout ur pregnancy?
Hi ros00,
Ok do stick to bed rest as it will help the placenta to attach back. Is yours bleeding or intermittent spotting? Hope and pray that your placenta will attach back and spotting will cease.
I was on bedrest from week 8 to 10 cos of the spotting. Was warded one night as well due to the bleeding. Doctor cannot tell me if it's because of placenta previa or other issues like hormonal imbalance. After 12 weeks he told me I have to relax and take it easy, cos there is limited actions he can take as the placenta is formed, and also baby usually stronger after 1st trimester.
I'm not on bedrest now, but I realised I cannot lift heavy things, and attempt my usual housework load or even lift my laptop to walk around and go for meetings. I halved my workload, limit my walking to only half a day and with plenty of sit down and rest to mitigate this.
I've heard of fren's frens who were also ordered bed rest due to bleeding /contractions, so it's quite normal. Hang in there so keep the babe in the oven!
Ok do stick to bed rest as it will help the placenta to attach back. Is yours bleeding or intermittent spotting? Hope and pray that your placenta will attach back and spotting will cease.
I was on bedrest from week 8 to 10 cos of the spotting. Was warded one night as well due to the bleeding. Doctor cannot tell me if it's because of placenta previa or other issues like hormonal imbalance. After 12 weeks he told me I have to relax and take it easy, cos there is limited actions he can take as the placenta is formed, and also baby usually stronger after 1st trimester.
I'm not on bedrest now, but I realised I cannot lift heavy things, and attempt my usual housework load or even lift my laptop to walk around and go for meetings. I halved my workload, limit my walking to only half a day and with plenty of sit down and rest to mitigate this.
I've heard of fren's frens who were also ordered bed rest due to bleeding /contractions, so it's quite normal. Hang in there so keep the babe in the oven!
I'm one week behind you at 17 weeks - I doubt it's implantation cos it's on and off spotting.
Not sure about my fren frens case. I think one was contraction the other was bleeding if walk too much. My doc said that bedrest can help placenta to attach back. He said bleeding can also be caused by weak womb, and asked me to take chicken essence and of course don't walk too much.
Not sure about my fren frens case. I think one was contraction the other was bleeding if walk too much. My doc said that bedrest can help placenta to attach back. He said bleeding can also be caused by weak womb, and asked me to take chicken essence and of course don't walk too much.
shirleyten
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Hi ros00. Don't worry everything will be fine since u r already this far. I am one week before u at 19 weeks. I understand how paranoid and negative we can be.. I lost 2 before in 5 yrs. 1st if blighted ovum and 2nd is chemical pregnancy. This pregnancy wasn't as easy or blissful as what others see... imagine when I got preg.. DH & I didn't jump for joy.. we r scare...
No matter what.. this are situation we cannot control. . What we can do is be good.. listen to doctor advise and if it meant to bed rest till give birth. . U just have to do that.. the rest of the world can wait..
So.. Please be positive. . A grumpy mommy will have grumpy kid. Hehe.. so since we r not in control. Just takes thing one step at a time..
lots of hugs!
No matter what.. this are situation we cannot control. . What we can do is be good.. listen to doctor advise and if it meant to bed rest till give birth. . U just have to do that.. the rest of the world can wait..
So.. Please be positive. . A grumpy mommy will have grumpy kid. Hehe.. so since we r not in control. Just takes thing one step at a time..
lots of hugs!
Ya. We really need alot of physical n emotional strength. Both my husband & I felt the same as u n ur husband. For me, I also lost 2 within a yr and all cannot determine the reasons. And 2nd one was in the 2nd trimester which is why I'm now very paranoid and negative over every small little thing. Haiz... I guess all we can do is to psycho our mind.
shirleyten
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Yeap.. staying positive and pray is all we need to do.. we are all here to support each other. . Just have to move forward and stop looking back.
Now my positivity is to look forward to my next appointment. . So I can see how my bb is doing. .
Now my positivity is to look forward to my next appointment. . So I can see how my bb is doing. .
I had 3 miscarriages in the last 3 years. Gynae cannot tell me what happen. He said is common and just luck. First was blighted, second n third is chemical. Have decided to see a fertility specialist next week to do a thorough check and discuss on fertility pregnant. It has been more than a yr since last MC. Have anyone went for checkup regarding recurring MC?
Thanks, rosOO. There are so much to read around here. I used to think that I m in a terrible situation but now I realise mine is nothing as compared to those who experienced later stage MC, etc. Praying is really a good way to get this over. Stay positive and strong support from family are very important. I took months to get over my 1St MC.
