ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?
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isabella_akj
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hello hello everybody..
how was everyone's weekend hee.. mine was ok ok la.. relax kat rumah aje.. did not go anywhere except for causeway point ajer heehee..
how was everyone's weekend hee.. mine was ok ok la.. relax kat rumah aje.. did not go anywhere except for causeway point ajer heehee..
wati
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But im abit scared actually. Cos Fri after coming home from in-laws, i had the worst sakit perut and ceret-beret ever.. So Sat/Sun, my baby tak bergerak sgt, tapi still moving lah. Today im monitoring the fetal movement..mintak2 nothing serious.
And i swear that im not going to eat at my in-laws place anymore ! Phobia giler.
And i swear that im not going to eat at my in-laws place anymore ! Phobia giler.
wati
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Hi Isabella,
My weekend was ok.
Friday : In-Law place. Ate dinner there and had terrible stomach pains and diarrhea ever.
Saturday : De-Cluttering of stuff in my room. Sebab i merajok dgn the maid, i did everything myself. So the maid tak kena gaya, keep asking whether i need help to clean the room and i said "NO!!" And terus i lock the room. Then evening went over to Kew Walk for dinner party.
Sunday : Maya attended the TUMBLETOTS alone. But it was fun. Then go back to continue to de-clutter only to find out that the maid had clean-up everything !! Apa yg aku dah segregate, she mixed it up again, then she re-arrange the furniture back. BINGIT seh ! Before i go to send Maya to school, I specifically told her not to do anything in the room.. si deknie degil, pergi kemas.. sigh*
My weekend was ok.
Friday : In-Law place. Ate dinner there and had terrible stomach pains and diarrhea ever.
Saturday : De-Cluttering of stuff in my room. Sebab i merajok dgn the maid, i did everything myself. So the maid tak kena gaya, keep asking whether i need help to clean the room and i said "NO!!" And terus i lock the room. Then evening went over to Kew Walk for dinner party.
Sunday : Maya attended the TUMBLETOTS alone. But it was fun. Then go back to continue to de-clutter only to find out that the maid had clean-up everything !! Apa yg aku dah segregate, she mixed it up again, then she re-arrange the furniture back. BINGIT seh ! Before i go to send Maya to school, I specifically told her not to do anything in the room.. si deknie degil, pergi kemas.. sigh*
morning peeps,
woke up at 4 am cos my boy nak susu.
went back to sleep.
then woke and saw the clock was 6.30.
so terus bangun, nak siap2.
then realised closck was actually 5.30!
now dah soo sleepy already.
what a dfifference 1 hr makes!
wati, insya'allah, yr baby is ok.
but eh, during my preggy time, i was super kiasu.
sakit sikit, go to kkh women's 24 hr clinic.
and always ask to check the bb's heartbeat.
woke up at 4 am cos my boy nak susu.
went back to sleep.
then woke and saw the clock was 6.30.
so terus bangun, nak siap2.
then realised closck was actually 5.30!
now dah soo sleepy already.
what a dfifference 1 hr makes!
wati, insya'allah, yr baby is ok.
but eh, during my preggy time, i was super kiasu.
sakit sikit, go to kkh women's 24 hr clinic.
and always ask to check the bb's heartbeat.
wati
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Athlete, 12 weeks is too early. Im worries cos it was painful . Now tgh buat fetal movement counting, tapi mcm kurang bergerak. Maybe cos baby dah too big, so limited space to move around. But tak kan after the incident jer, terus kurang movement. Seram pulak kalau dorang check, sekali they say im ready to give birth... Arrgh... !
isabella_akj
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hi bonda... hmmm i wonder what you ate at ur in law's place that was so bad... i really think u shouldnt go over anymore lei.. some more u r now 35 weeks? if i were you i wouldnt go over anymore heehee.. and your maid ni... aiyah got storeroom to clear never clear... then when u want to clear ur own room u already tell her no need to help.. she help.. haiyah terbalik la this woman..
athlete, oh no heehee u must have been very sleepy until u saw the wrong timing hahahaha... poor you... all the best ok for today! keep telling yourself "i can do this! i can do this! i can do this!"
hey guys.. ask u all one thing ah.. me and my niece were discussing about having a chalet.. she booked 3 days 2 nights.. one night for our group of friends.. one night for her bf's family.. so i told her ok how much is it for the first night.. me and my husband pay half la.. she say dont need.. we pay for the bbq food.. ok la fine.. cos the chalet's this friday after my scan so i was hoping to announce the gender of the baby at the chalet la.. so then i wanted to confirm the no of ppl to invite(diorang semua no frens, all dependent on me to invite my frens). then my niece said this "Kak, u dont ask first. wait for my bf come back then i ask him for permission first to invite the rest of the ppl." so i said ok la... although my thoughts were like "What for ask for permission?". bf baru u see. so i'm thinking she wants to act all "responsible wifey" then fine la. then she keep on mentioning this is fadzly's chalet, this is fadzly's chalet (fadzly bf dia) then i macam bingit la. like isnt this OUR chalet? dont u think we all have a say. or is this fadzly's chalet and everything we do we have to ask fadzly's permission? so i told her la.. dahlah i think my husband and i tak jadik datang ah gini.. cos now all my friends also dont wanna come pasal dengar cerita nak kena minta permission semua lol..
did i over react?
athlete, oh no heehee u must have been very sleepy until u saw the wrong timing hahahaha... poor you... all the best ok for today! keep telling yourself "i can do this! i can do this! i can do this!"
hey guys.. ask u all one thing ah.. me and my niece were discussing about having a chalet.. she booked 3 days 2 nights.. one night for our group of friends.. one night for her bf's family.. so i told her ok how much is it for the first night.. me and my husband pay half la.. she say dont need.. we pay for the bbq food.. ok la fine.. cos the chalet's this friday after my scan so i was hoping to announce the gender of the baby at the chalet la.. so then i wanted to confirm the no of ppl to invite(diorang semua no frens, all dependent on me to invite my frens). then my niece said this "Kak, u dont ask first. wait for my bf come back then i ask him for permission first to invite the rest of the ppl." so i said ok la... although my thoughts were like "What for ask for permission?". bf baru u see. so i'm thinking she wants to act all "responsible wifey" then fine la. then she keep on mentioning this is fadzly's chalet, this is fadzly's chalet (fadzly bf dia) then i macam bingit la. like isnt this OUR chalet? dont u think we all have a say. or is this fadzly's chalet and everything we do we have to ask fadzly's permission? so i told her la.. dahlah i think my husband and i tak jadik datang ah gini.. cos now all my friends also dont wanna come pasal dengar cerita nak kena minta permission semua lol..
did i over react?
isabella_akj
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oh and bonda, i agree with the rest... you should just go for a check up.. pasal after the diarrhoea and everything... better safe than sorry
wati
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Isabella, you dah tahu gender of your baby ?! Tell us lah...
Anyway, kalau i jadi you.. kalau leceh dgt pasal chalet tu, better dun do. Cos your niece keep saying tat this is her bf chalet..bf chalet.. i rather not do. Takut miscommunication over whom to invite and abt food.
That was just my point of view.
athlete, you better drink coffee.. nanti balik nk driving..
Anyway, kalau i jadi you.. kalau leceh dgt pasal chalet tu, better dun do. Cos your niece keep saying tat this is her bf chalet..bf chalet.. i rather not do. Takut miscommunication over whom to invite and abt food.
That was just my point of view.
athlete, you better drink coffee.. nanti balik nk driving..
isabella_akj
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bonda yes! go go go! we'll all be praying for you ok... hugs!
oh and i dont know the gender yet! friday ni scan harap harap dapat tahu gender! but once i find out i'll let you guys know ok heehee..
athlete, tu ah! i also thinking... PERMISSION? haiyah lain hari suah.. ahahaha...
ok then this is where the story makin interesting... i told her my reasons for not going la.. i talk to her nicely.. abeh dia cakap ape tau... SINCE U PREGNANT U SENSITIVE AH.
omg. aku nak cakap ajer "never tell a pregnant woman she's sensitive, lest u want to die la". alamak geram sey... terus i tell her ok la.. errr all the best...dah tu ajer.. dont wanna say anymore..
i may be more sensitive but all my friends feel the same way as well so they can't be more sensitive la kan.. pasal they're men and they're not pregnant.. and then bcos i am pregnant la aku taknak gaduh so lantak kau la anak. nanti chalet takde orang datang enjoy ah the two of you lol.
oh and i dont know the gender yet! friday ni scan harap harap dapat tahu gender! but once i find out i'll let you guys know ok heehee..
athlete, tu ah! i also thinking... PERMISSION? haiyah lain hari suah.. ahahaha...
ok then this is where the story makin interesting... i told her my reasons for not going la.. i talk to her nicely.. abeh dia cakap ape tau... SINCE U PREGNANT U SENSITIVE AH.
omg. aku nak cakap ajer "never tell a pregnant woman she's sensitive, lest u want to die la". alamak geram sey... terus i tell her ok la.. errr all the best...dah tu ajer.. dont wanna say anymore..
i may be more sensitive but all my friends feel the same way as well so they can't be more sensitive la kan.. pasal they're men and they're not pregnant.. and then bcos i am pregnant la aku taknak gaduh so lantak kau la anak. nanti chalet takde orang datang enjoy ah the two of you lol.
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pre/post lunctime reading.
enjoy!
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isabella_akj
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wah honestly i just heard about the tiger mom and i went to google and omg. GARANG man. hahah
athelete, yeah man.. down here so many of the tiger moms pushing and pushing their kids heehee... its not wrong... like what nora said.. to each his own heehee..but one thing's definite... different cultures different parenting styles... like asians tend to lean more towards spanking and all.. westerners believe in small little rectangular carpets called time out.
hahaha..
athelete, yeah man.. down here so many of the tiger moms pushing and pushing their kids heehee... its not wrong... like what nora said.. to each his own heehee..but one thing's definite... different cultures different parenting styles... like asians tend to lean more towards spanking and all.. westerners believe in small little rectangular carpets called time out.
wati
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Hola.. back from NUH. Alhamdullilah.. everything is ok. BUT !! Guess what.. due to the stomach pain and diarrhea, (this is what doc said) She said that due to the electrolytes...blah blah blah...the baby is now turn in an upright position. Now the baby is breech ! Arrrgh.. dah cantik2 budak nie dah ready in position for delivery, dia boleh pergi main pusing2 plak.. hmph! Now i just hope that the baby will turn in time. Insyallah...
And the moment i did the CTG scan, my baby moved around like crazy..Non stop hit seh.. Doc ckp i got cheeky baby.. aisey bedah.. but now, i dah relax sikit lah knowing everything is ok.
And the moment i did the CTG scan, my baby moved around like crazy..Non stop hit seh.. Doc ckp i got cheeky baby.. aisey bedah.. but now, i dah relax sikit lah knowing everything is ok.
wati
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Athlete, i guess it is true. Cos selalu baby dah terbalik and his kicking is on my upper tummy.. so mcm kena my rusuk then my stomach..so the kick is harder. Rupa-rupanya, baby dah breech position, so not much movement. Patutlah aku panic...
I just spoke to my mum abt the maid incident on Sat and Sun. My mum ckp "Dia nie memang degil". So what?! I got to understand that she is degil and live with it? From now onwards, i am going to lock my room cos she MEMANDAI-MANDAI rearrange everything. Aku dgn perut dah penat2, put everything nicely in place, and she go and move everything. Belo seh.
I just spoke to my mum abt the maid incident on Sat and Sun. My mum ckp "Dia nie memang degil". So what?! I got to understand that she is degil and live with it? From now onwards, i am going to lock my room cos she MEMANDAI-MANDAI rearrange everything. Aku dgn perut dah penat2, put everything nicely in place, and she go and move everything. Belo seh.
isabella_akj
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wati yayyyy everything is ok! phew! dont worry i doakan that the baby will pusing balik ok... heeehee cheeky baby boy! oh yah have u planned a name???
wati
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Nora.. you're right.. LOL.
PILS : Im not paranoid. I know they dun like me. Did i tell you, dari dorang pergi haji, whenever they call to my HB.. tak pernah pun tanyer khabar i sihat ker tak..until now aku dah 8 mths, takder sekali pun tanyer when im due or how am i. Last week we went over, dorang sibuk tanyer my HB whether JULY nanti can go to their house and paint their hall ?! Phui !
So whatever it is, kalau dorang tak nk berbual dgn aku, aku lagi suka ! Just don't create rumours about me. I am not going to help them when they need $$.. no more liao.. Game over !
PILS : Im not paranoid. I know they dun like me. Did i tell you, dari dorang pergi haji, whenever they call to my HB.. tak pernah pun tanyer khabar i sihat ker tak..until now aku dah 8 mths, takder sekali pun tanyer when im due or how am i. Last week we went over, dorang sibuk tanyer my HB whether JULY nanti can go to their house and paint their hall ?! Phui !
So whatever it is, kalau dorang tak nk berbual dgn aku, aku lagi suka ! Just don't create rumours about me. I am not going to help them when they need $$.. no more liao.. Game over !
So whatever it is, kalau dorang tak nk berbual dgn aku, aku lagi suka ! Just don't create rumours about me. I am not going to help them when they need $$.. no more liao.. Game over !
I'm goin thru this shit again! ATM BERGERAK!! Its so diff to say no, mil sounded so pitiful..! walaupon aku tahu ni drama, i still got taken in!
I'm goin thru this shit again! ATM BERGERAK!! Its so diff to say no, mil sounded so pitiful..! walaupon aku tahu ni drama, i still got taken in!
wati
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Kak Notty...dun they all sound PITIFUL all the time kan.. haiz.
For my case, nasib baik mata aku tajam. Recently saw my MIL wearing new gold bangles. Ada 2 tebal. So aku tunggu kalau dorang mintak, i will tell them to gie hantar gelang masuk jail.
Another story, the other day, 1 of my HB auntie (Janda anak 2..anak dah besar lah kan..) called to ask my HB to jadi GUARANTOR cos she want to buy house. Aku terus ckp NO !! Cos i knew my MIL is the one yg suruh this auntie call him.
For my case, nasib baik mata aku tajam. Recently saw my MIL wearing new gold bangles. Ada 2 tebal. So aku tunggu kalau dorang mintak, i will tell them to gie hantar gelang masuk jail.
Another story, the other day, 1 of my HB auntie (Janda anak 2..anak dah besar lah kan..) called to ask my HB to jadi GUARANTOR cos she want to buy house. Aku terus ckp NO !! Cos i knew my MIL is the one yg suruh this auntie call him.
