hi i am a dad n my wife is a sahm.
my wife is like a boss at home, ordering me to do this n do that
as my kids want to go to legoland, she asked me to plan everything according to what she wants
day 1 go msia, stay at hotel
day 2 go legoland n stay at hotel
day 3 shopping n go back sg
i planned everything n spent sgd 400 on two nights hotel.
to me, there is no need to stay at hotel since we only going to legoland
on one of the days, we spent the whole day just shopping at a mall, bought a few pairs of shoes.
so i said, the sgd 200 can be better spent buying better shoes, rather than buying a few pairs of cheaper shoes
after we went home, she quarrel with me, saying i'm selfish to think this way. she said i only think of myself n my money n ask me to reflect on myself. she said i must keep it to myself n should not say it out as it causes stress to her
i have been thinking but i dont think i'm wrong n selfish.
please help n tell me what did i do wrong?
my wife is like a boss at home, ordering me to do this n do that
as my kids want to go to legoland, she asked me to plan everything according to what she wants
day 1 go msia, stay at hotel
day 2 go legoland n stay at hotel
day 3 shopping n go back sg
i planned everything n spent sgd 400 on two nights hotel.
to me, there is no need to stay at hotel since we only going to legoland
on one of the days, we spent the whole day just shopping at a mall, bought a few pairs of shoes.
so i said, the sgd 200 can be better spent buying better shoes, rather than buying a few pairs of cheaper shoes
after we went home, she quarrel with me, saying i'm selfish to think this way. she said i only think of myself n my money n ask me to reflect on myself. she said i must keep it to myself n should not say it out as it causes stress to her
i have been thinking but i dont think i'm wrong n selfish.
please help n tell me what did i do wrong?