2WW - for those TTC-ing

Hi, my next AF due on 05 Feb 2016 and hopefully it "Strike". In fact, I did not follow the ovulation day and just BD as and when we like. But I have being taking Hong Zao + Long Yan tea for the past week on alternate day. Drinking coffee once or twice a week and have tea every alternate weekday. As I be turning 36 this May, I'm afraid that I will be harder to get pregnant. Does anyone has any advice? I'm thinking of going to TCM but not sure which is the best. Can someone recommend TCM around chinatown area? There is one Sinchong TCM at People's Park Centre, has anyone being there?

You can try the famous tcm tan siew buoy. I pm you the contacts
 


You can try the famous tcm tan siew buoy. I pm you the contacts
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I didn't track my ovulation, so Im not sure about my DPO. But my next AF will be on 9 Feb. So, have to wait till 10 Feb to do my test... >.< I have very long cycle

@Siling, my af is due on 9/10 Feb. But not sure if i can stop myself from testing. I think someone has to lock up my test kits and hide the key. Hehehe. Hope to hear good news from you!
 
@Lostkitty actually although many ppl here have mentioned that it is good to take red date longan tea, it may not be applicable for everyone mainly because everyone has diff body constitution. Some may be heaty body or some may be cooling body with dampness. I would highly suggest you to consult tcm before taking as it may tilt your body's equilibrium if it is not suitable.

If you are ttc-ing, you might also want to be cautious about what you put into your body because what you eat now affects your eggs 3 months later. It would be advisable to reduce or quit caffeine. Of course many ppl would say that alot of ppl still drink caffeinated drinks or eat liang food but still bfp. Those ppl r probably those who easily bfp. If you have been trying for sometime without success, you may just be one of those that need extra caution.

In any case, you may be interested to check out tsb aka dr chen qiu mei from Kang De Mei. You can google for her and obtain her number. Her queue is long but there are some who have indeed obtained bfp after seeing her.

Hi graceakaclouds, thanks for the advice and shall wait till 5th Feb if my AF is coming. Will keep the contact in mind. Thanks again.

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Hi Joyousbb, thanks for the picture and have save it into my pc.
 
@Siling, my af is due on 9/10 Feb. But not sure if i can stop myself from testing. I think someone has to lock up my test kits and hide the key. Hehehe. Hope to hear good news from you!

Hey our AF due on around the same day. I am also trying to stop myself from testing but now I am already testing once per day with those cheap test strips. :) So far no news.

My previous pregnancy I got myself a BFP a few days before my AF. So I'm torturing myself now kekeke
 
Previous bfp was 9dpo when my luteal phase is 12days.

Most people will say why test so early; what if it's a bfn. I can handle disappointment and life is short. Just test if your heart desires ;)
 
Keep praying hard AF will be away from me for 10month ;)
@Siling how long have you been trying after first child?

After I seriously started looking at the dates and symptoms of ovulation, we succeeded in the 3rd month. I guess we are lucky back then. And this is my 3rd month again for our 2nd one. So hope can really get a BFP!
 
Good luck, ladies!

I also started testing this morning with the internet cheapies. Stark white. Itchy hands, itchy heart. :)
 
I went to Watson to buy housebrand HPT and tested just now. I guess I have input too much urine and exceed the blue strip as stated. It came out Invalid.... Oh my... have to re-test again later.... LOL...:D

Update: Tested and its BFN. I also saw some red strip when I wipe my vagina area. I guess gonna see doc soon...
 
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Hi all, my wife and I have been reading the forums and heaps of info have been really helpful. We had our fresh ET today so the start of our 2ww commences. Wife's temper today has been volatile, hardly relaxed like what many have mentioned is important. Did anyone have the same experience? I'm not sure if it's the side effect of medication and hormones. I'm naturally worried.
 
@thehubby you may wish to join the ivf thread and enquire there. I'm sure someone can advise you. http://singaporemotherhood.com/forum/index.php?threads/2902/

Hi all, my wife and I have been reading the forums and heaps of info have been really helpful. We had our fresh ET today so the start of our 2ww commences. Wife's temper today has been volatile, hardly relaxed like what many have mentioned is important. Did anyone have the same experience? I'm not sure if it's the side effect of medication and hormones. I'm naturally worried.
 
@simbb I tested today morning too. Didn't expect anything so tested and went back to sleep. When I woke up, its negative. lol. I knew it would be but just couldn't stop myself haha
 
@simbb I tested today morning too. Didn't expect anything so tested and went back to sleep. When I woke up, its negative. lol. I knew it would be but just couldn't stop myself haha

Me too. I tested again this morning. I saw something unusual when I tested this morning - a ghost line when I tilted it. It didn't result in anything after the test dried up. Perhaps, I just wanted to see something... likely to test again tmrw morning. :D
 
Hi ladies, spotted red blood when wiping my vagina area. So its a BFN :( ... quite disappointed and am thinking of seeing TCM or GYN as I'm reaching 36 years old soon this year...

So my question to all ladies is, which is better? TCM or GYN?

If seeing GYN, what question should I ask? If taking medicine, will there be side effect? Should I see the doc after the menses or during?

If seeing TCM, will the process be slow?

Can some ladies please advice me?
 
Lostkitty, sometimes TCM and western treatment work hand in hand. Definitely not about which one is better over the other. You may want to access what you're more comfy with.

If TCM, you may like to consider one that is near your vicinity (residence/work place). There will be regular visits so cutting down the traveling time will be less stressful. I've been to one at AMK and I like her so depends if you're living near there.

TCM generally takes a few months to fine tune your system but then, everyone's body is different. There are ladies who went TCM for years and still don't conceive. But every avenue is a chance and you never try you never know.

For gynae, usually they have a standard set of questions they will ask you so no need to worry too much what to ask. They will then access and recommend a list of tests for you and hubby to go through. With the results, the doc will know better what treatment to fit in. Could be clomid, IUI, IVF etc.

Going subsidized or private patient, again, depends on your comfort level. Also consider the finance part too.

Try to seek medical treatment before you hit 40 as the govt subsidy is gone after that.
 
Lostkitty, sometimes TCM and western treatment work hand in hand. Definitely not about which one is better over the other. You may want to access what you're more comfy with.

If TCM, you may like to consider one that is near your vicinity (residence/work place). There will be regular visits so cutting down the traveling time will be less stressful. I've been to one at AMK and I like her so depends if you're living near there.

TCM generally takes a few months to fine tune your system but then, everyone's body is different. There are ladies who went TCM for years and still don't conceive. But every avenue is a chance and you never try you never know.

For gynae, usually they have a standard set of questions they will ask you so no need to worry too much what to ask. They will then access and recommend a list of tests for you and hubby to go through. With the results, the doc will know better what treatment to fit in. Could be clomid, IUI, IVF etc.

Going subsidized or private patient, again, depends on your comfort level. Also consider the finance part too.

Try to seek medical treatment before you hit 40 as the govt subsidy is gone after that.

Hi Redvel, thanks for the advice. I'm thinking of seeing GYN 1st to access my fertility then to TCM. I'm staying at redhill and work at bugis. I have already found 1 GYN at tiong bahru and TCM recommended by ladies here at chinatown. Just that yet to see both.

I'm now really concern about my fertility and at the same time, my hubby was stressed with work for the past month. Stress part should be one of the factor...
 
I think it's a good start to seeing a gynae first. There are some things which I feel TCM can't pick up (say like a blocked Fallopian tube). But of course having a yin yang balance is also very important for fertility.

Definitely stress from either party is no good. But I agree it's so hard to avoid completely. Where we live is just not conducive for baby making! I think finding your own ways to have relaxing couple time once a while will be a nice touch. Good things happen when we are least stressed.
 
I would see gynae after cny. Yes, stress is definitely a no-no but like you said, its hard to relax. Right now, 1st thing on the list is see gynae. Thanks for the advice redvel. Wish me luck...
 
I would see gynae after cny. Yes, stress is definitely a no-no but like you said, its hard to relax. Right now, 1st thing on the list is see gynae. Thanks for the advice redvel. Wish me luck...

Please see a fertility specialist rather than a normal gynae. A fertility dr can diagnosie better your condition. There are many factors for bfn like block tubes, low sperm count, polyps in uterus that hinder implantation, egg shell too hard and need ICSI etc. If U are above 35 and actively trying for half a yr with no results better to seek help early. Tcm can only tiao your body. If the issue lies in your block tube, low sperm or bad egg quality tcm cannot be help.
 
Hi everyone! It has been a long time since i chatted here. And there i saw many new names. I would like to spread my baby dust to any one here. Please pm me your name n address and i will send u the pregnancy test or the ovulation test kit.

I have always wanted to send out the kits but has been really busy and hectic thus e delay.

Last but not least, having a baby is not easy to come by and i do hope every one here will be patient, love yourself, be postitive and most of all be happy! It's a really tough journey which many of us went thru together!!!

I will mail out the kits after cny okie? I will also try my best to find time to drop by here. Happy cny everyone!
 
Awww today I have a very strong feeling that I missed the chance this month again. Though its still 5 days to my AF due, I just feel so...
 
Hi everyone! It has been a long time since i chatted here. And there i saw many new names. I would like to spread my baby dust to any one here. Please pm me your name n address and i will send u the pregnancy test or the ovulation test kit.

I have always wanted to send out the kits but has been really busy and hectic thus e delay.

Last but not least, having a baby is not easy to come by and i do hope every one here will be patient, love yourself, be postitive and most of all be happy! It's a really tough journey which many of us went thru together!!!

I will mail out the kits after cny okie? I will also try my best to find time to drop by here. Happy cny everyone!
Congrats emily!
 
Please see a fertility specialist rather than a normal gynae. A fertility dr can diagnosie better your condition. There are many factors for bfn like block tubes, low sperm count, polyps in uterus that hinder implantation, egg shell too hard and need ICSI etc. If U are above 35 and actively trying for half a yr with no results better to seek help early. Tcm can only tiao your body. If the issue lies in your block tube, low sperm or bad egg quality tcm cannot be help.

Hi Bunny33, any recommendation for Fertility Specialist?
 
Hi Bunny33, any recommendation for Fertility Specialist?

Govt hospital U can choose kkh Dr Tan Heng Hao, Dr Sadhana. NUH choose prof pc Wong, SGH dr yu suling. Private Dr paul Tseng, dr SF Loh, dr LC cheng, dr Ann tan, dr suresh, dr Roland chieng.
 
Govt hospital U can choose kkh Dr Tan Heng Hao, Dr Sadhana. NUH choose prof pc Wong, SGH dr yu suling. Private Dr paul Tseng, dr SF Loh, dr LC cheng, dr Ann tan, dr suresh, dr Roland chieng.

Thanks bunny33 for the listing. Appreciate it... will take note and read the review of those Drs.

Thanks again.
 
Hi everyone here.. I hav been TCC for about 1 yr already. . Only a missed pregnancy in last yr feb (chemical pregnancy ) .. after that no news. . Went for body check up with my hubby in Dec and found out that the he has low sperm count... and doctor ask us to focus on his problem first...he hav been taking Megamen from GNC and fish oil for about 1 mth.. not sure when we should go start going to see fertility specialist. . Any advise. .?
 
Hi everyone here.. I hav been TCC for about 1 yr already. . Only a missed pregnancy in last yr feb (chemical pregnancy ) .. after that no news. . Went for body check up with my hubby in Dec and found out that the he has low sperm count... and doctor ask us to focus on his problem first...he hav been taking Megamen from GNC and fish oil for about 1 mth.. not sure when we should go start going to see fertility specialist. . Any advise. .?
Hi shirley, where did you do your first check up? Im thinking I'll need to go for one with my hubby too..
 
nope. i told the receptionist i want to book appt with Dr Selina Chua. the receptionist will ask whether you are pregnant, then i told her "no but i want to get pregnant". then they give u an appt date. first consultation the gynea will explain the procedure to you...

private is more "professional" than government so the procedure may differ
Hi Dr Selina Chua is from which hospital ?
 
Hi all, those who is from kkh, if u have chosen dr tan heng hao, u have got e right choice! My bb was delivered by him. He is kind n gentle. Very understanding.
 
Govt hospital U can choose kkh Dr Tan Heng Hao, Dr Sadhana. NUH choose prof pc Wong, SGH dr yu suling. Private Dr paul Tseng, dr SF Loh, dr LC cheng, dr Ann tan, dr suresh, dr Roland chieng.
You can consider Dr Yeong CT from tow Yung clinic too . Caring, patient, meticulous and smart. I think his success rate is quite high too since I saw someone calling him god in another forum.. Anyway I BFP first time ivf under him! So I have all the good things to say about him .. Haha but honestly he is very meticulous in tweaking your medications and scans...I guess it comes with experience .. My hubby is very impressed with him too.. Coz we spent a lot previously already on rounds of failed ivf. All up, we spent more than 100k already before seeing him.. So very lucky to succeed first time with him!
 
Hi Ladies, need some advice.

On my 1st pregnancy, I only took folic acid and conceive successfully after taking few months. Now trying for #2 and was thinking which is better.

1) Which is better choice? Blackmore Folic Acid or Blackmore conceive well gold? Can it be taken during AF?

2) If going to c gynae, can i visit during AF? Must my hubby come along for the consultation?
 
Hi Ladies, need some advice.

On my 1st pregnancy, I only took folic acid and conceive successfully after taking few months. Now trying for #2 and was thinking which is better.

1) Which is better choice? Blackmore Folic Acid or Blackmore conceive well gold? Can it be taken during AF?

2) If going to c gynae, can i visit during AF? Must my hubby come along for the consultation?


Think conceive gold has more vitamins.. That's what a lot of moms take before pregnancy confirmed. After that can change to the normal one ..

Can see gynae during af la . But what's the reason for the visit ? If doing Pap smear better wait till af over . Sometimes with blood can obscure reading ..
 

Hi ttc2016 how many days ur AF late? Does it normally regular? Cause mine late for 2 days already and still bfn. Normally I'm quite accurate.
Usually quite regular, i use this tracking app and its quite accurate. But in the end late for 2 days. Last mth also late 2 days.. dont know why.. maybe stressed..
 

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