<font color="aa00aa">Good morning mummies!!!
Its monday..raining and im so lazy to work.
Been sitting here facing my pc but not doing work..instead im spreeing..lol
Castiel's mummy,
I used to be in the 2011 ttc thread before and in the miscarriage thread too
My story with Lawrence Ang very long winded leh..hehe
I tested bfp and one week later i found myself spotting.
On Sunday, my spotting turned to real bleeding.
Freh blood filled up the whole pad like first day of AF.
But i didnt think much cos i got guests at my hse that day.
In the evening when my guests left, i got real worried so i called up Lawrence Ang and his is the nearest clinic to me.
He told me to come down on monday morning.
The next day i went.
I heard of his style before but i totally didnt expect it.
When i went into his consultation room, he totally didnt look at me.
Told me to lie on the bed to be scan.
He scanned my tummy for less than 5 minutes and said..oh i cant see anything...its either its too early or u have already lost it.
He said that in a nonchalant manner.
When i sat down, he said...u come back again in 2 weeks time and if there is sth we can see it then.
He didnt even give me any progesterone jab, no an tai pills, no mc even.
Instead, he proceeded to take out his package and started explaining it to me.
I was like HELLO? im bleeding here and thats all u can say and do??
I left his clinic feeling so unsatisfied adn very worried.
At home i kept thinking if i should go for a second opinion.
I mean, if this baby can be save..i wana do all i can to save it. At least i will feel better knowing that i have tried my best.
I called up my fren whose hubby is a gp and she told me to go to another gynae.
So at 4pm i called my own gynae's clinic and he said come down straight away.
I called a cab and rushed down cos clinis is closing at 5pm.
Once i reached, i was ushered in.
My gynae scanned tummy and said cannot see anything.
So he did v scan and said..ok can see sth but its very small.
He held my hand and said..the situation doesnt look promising but i promise u..we will do our best and whatever's possible to save this baby.
I was in tears by then.
He took my blood and send for testing.
Gave me jab and also double dose of an tai pills.
He told me to take 3 days mc and lie down at home.
When i came back on the third day, sadly the hcg has dropped drastically which means i have lost the baby.
Though i was very sad then but my gynae was real nice.
I was just thinking how come 2 doctors from the same hospital can have 2 different ways of practice?
So yes, my conclusion is never ever to go to Lawrence Ang again.
He can only do those straight uncomplicated pregnancy but not mine.
My gynae stayed with me even thru my second miscarriage and when i finally got my gal.
I can never ask for more from him.
I am real glad God made me meet such a nice gynae.
So there's my story.
Gosh..im crying again as im typing this.
If that baby had live, she will be 1 yr old by now.
I was due on 12 march.</font>
