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Ital : no choice, cause my bb's hair dropped, and alot of patches patches, not nice at all. So decided to cut botak and grow all out straight.
I even tell my hubby say... " eh , our daughter's hair abit bu jun yun " (In chinese means like not balanced ) . He actually replied me , " where is nie feng? " (The chinese hero show =.=")
My CL is actually a Singaporean if i'm not wrong. Her son is her agent. They are not under any agency. It is intro to me by my friend. Whose hubby's friend's sister used her. (quite long link haha)
She is around 68 I think. Around there. My MIL called her Ah Ying or Ah Yim.
1st day she came, everything still ok.
At night, when she slept. My bb cried 1 sec. My CL sat up, then lied down went back to sleep again. I was like, oh???? But never mind.
2nd day, I was still sleeping in the morning. (I slept with air-con cause May-June confinement is HOTTTTT. I was sweating like hell and still needa drink dom before I sleep)
She went to bathe my bb girl around 7.30am in the morning. Came in to MY ROOM , not off-ing the air con. Taking off her towel and let her naked , barely dry body blow the air con!!
I didn't even know cause I'm too tired. I only woke up when I hear my girl sneeze !! (any single sound from my girl, I would jump awake.. guess that's mum lol...)
I saw her lying naked on her cot, with a little wet hair, and my CL was trying to put on her diapers.
I scolded the CL and asked her to at least wrap a towel over her top while putting on diapers and off the air-con.
But the CL said back to me, "never mind one la...."
I tolerate her and do it myself. Then I went to complain to my MIL. She's working so she can't help me with the confinement.
Then I started to notice things ... Stupid things that a loving CL would never do !!
Like, rushing to feed her even when she got choked, she never even take off the bottle to let my girl at least have a air or rest.. She just kept stuffing the milk bottle into my girl's mouth despite her cough.
That happened in the middle of the night. Which I think she assumed I'm sound asleep. Well I am.... Not until I heard my girl cough. So I opened my eyes, and I saw her still stuffing the milk bottle into my girl's mouth.. I woke up and scold her.. I said, "my bb already coughing n choking, you still stuff the milk bottle into her mouth?"
Then she faster take it off. And kept quiet. I guess she know she done wrong.
I keep trying to tolerate her because I can't find a CL at such last minute. But it became so tiring , having to keep my eye on her. I sent her packing on the 12th days.
Then my MIL realized she did not boil our drinking water. She merely just use tap water to fill up our water flask! I didn't drink the plain water because I was drinking red dates throughout... And when she found out, it was already quite some times.. Cause she told me she realized the drinking water taste a little funny.. But just don't know what went wrong.. Then after that, she realized it's tap water.. (didn't know why she realized it so late lol.. My hubby seldom drink plain water, so he don't know)
Then I got very mad .... Cause we always make milk using a little hot water and the drinking water..
Means all along we are all feeding my girl, tap water.. My MIL ask me not to confront my CL , as afraid she would do "things" behind my back, to my bb. So she threw the water and boiled new for the flask.
And also small things like , when my bb doesn't want to drink. My CL will use her hand to squeeze open her mouth to force her to drink.
When she burp my girl, which is only like days old. She never support her head. She just pat her back and let her head roll here n there.
Too many to name... Now typing all these, makes me go angry again..
hahah... So if mummies here have any friends or family wanna hire a CL named Ah ying or Ah yim, aged 68. She have a very boy hair and hip hop one, despite her age.
Please don't engage her. She might even kill your baby.