Well at least some of ur hb still will help up. Mine totally leave everything to me. I need to do check list on the bb stuffs. Need to wash them, clean bottles, fold them properly nicely and keep them properly. Make bb bed. Then if can need to sweep floor and do a bit of cleaning at home. Take care of bb full month planning, like ordering of cake, the catering and still have to think of way not to over spend in case he qn. All he do is work , maybe OT sometime, play maj, play games & watch tv. Nowaday even worse, if he is sleepless at night, he will watch video with his ipad next to me through out the night or talk to bb out of the blue in the middle of the night. It was so physically and mentally tired.
Maybe he think now I not working so can throw everything to me so that I won't feel bother and anyhow imagine things.