hunnymummy
Member
working mummies: singapore.at home.it's not easy to work when you're pregnant. you need to take good care of your health and mood.happy mom = happy baby. my mom say next time easier to take care. when i was still working at 10+ weeks, i was fighting war with my HOD cos she was trying to push me out of her dept so i was unhappy all the time. Then i decided to leave cos it's going to be bad for my girl.i have my girl for life but i will not stay in the job for long.i chose my girl cos i need her to have a nice personality to cope with life.
bu yao sheng qi.
just to share..when i am angry with my hubby, i play my wedding video clips or look at my wedding photos to recall how happy i felt then and assure myself things are still the same.For me, i've always wanted to be married and have my own family. That's my top priority in life. At my not too young, not too old age, i got it. so now's working towards managing my marriage well.switch focus to choosing a good hubby to bringing up my children well.. long term project.. i used many years to determine what kind of man i want to marry, to find him and at last to decide to marry him. Now, I'll be using more time to decide wad qualities i want in my children, how to raise them in that direction, put into trial and error and to stay in tune with hubby to achieve a happy family as a whole. What your children character, beliefs and attitude is like when they become an adult is more important than how much education they receive and what job they do.but usually, the 2nd part is determined by the 1st part.And their life is the legacy of mine.Feelings may fade, hubby is not yours unless he's still with you the day he dies.I always remind myself to take him as a friend, a partner, so i dun demand for too much from him and give him some space of his own.. but i make it clear where i draw the line and what i will never accept. extramarital affairs, crimes, gambling and wife battering, he can don't come home anymore, no sorry, no second chance. If we get to that extent some day, I will ask for half of his possessions, all the children, monthly upkeep and everything else i canget to squeeze him dry and leave him on the streets. love=hate. The more I love, the more I hate.
bu yao sheng qi.
just to share..when i am angry with my hubby, i play my wedding video clips or look at my wedding photos to recall how happy i felt then and assure myself things are still the same.For me, i've always wanted to be married and have my own family. That's my top priority in life. At my not too young, not too old age, i got it. so now's working towards managing my marriage well.switch focus to choosing a good hubby to bringing up my children well.. long term project.. i used many years to determine what kind of man i want to marry, to find him and at last to decide to marry him. Now, I'll be using more time to decide wad qualities i want in my children, how to raise them in that direction, put into trial and error and to stay in tune with hubby to achieve a happy family as a whole. What your children character, beliefs and attitude is like when they become an adult is more important than how much education they receive and what job they do.but usually, the 2nd part is determined by the 1st part.And their life is the legacy of mine.Feelings may fade, hubby is not yours unless he's still with you the day he dies.I always remind myself to take him as a friend, a partner, so i dun demand for too much from him and give him some space of his own.. but i make it clear where i draw the line and what i will never accept. extramarital affairs, crimes, gambling and wife battering, he can don't come home anymore, no sorry, no second chance. If we get to that extent some day, I will ask for half of his possessions, all the children, monthly upkeep and everything else i canget to squeeze him dry and leave him on the streets. love=hate. The more I love, the more I hate.
