jessie,
about enrichment class, I do not intend to send as I am more for the outdoors and unstructured learning environment. The only class is her pre-school class of nursery up to kindy level, maybe 3hrs each day. I intend to start around 2+yo, just like her gor gor and jie jie in the past.
This is only the tip of the iceberg for most of you. When the kids grow up, parents will also have to face the bombardment of enrichments and tuitions here and there, the comparing and waiting list and such. So far, I have stayed close to my heart that I will not subject my kids to such race, save for some fun camps/classes. My duaghter does not have tuition and she told me she is one of four in her class who do not have tuition. Told her as long as she is doing ok, there is no point and wasting her time. Rather, she should pay attention in class and take responsibility in her learning. But of course, if having done that and still not faring well, there is a need to seek external help. I mean, after spending 7am - 1pm in school, I don't want them to go to another aircon box to study. Also, the culture of parents sending kids to classes after classes during the weekday (after school) and over the weekend, and then parents loitering at shopping malls, the whole day gone, don't think i want to go that path yet. During weekday, I have seen kids in school uniform at the shopping mall (tuition) at 9pm+, longer than an adult's day, it doesn't seem quite right.
I mean, academic is impt but not all encompassing, also want them to grow up happy and develop in other areas.