jsmurf,
can understand hw u feel..
I just quit my job after much considering BUT never in my life I gonna be a SAHM.. still actively looking out for a new job..
My hb had been very supportive.. He helps out on bb alot too.. but at times (sad to say, most of the times).. I'm unappreciative and at times could take things for granted..
I'm a perfectionist.. always the kind of person that all things need to be done in my way.. but if u see it in a different perspective, I got my own reasonings too..
For eg. My hb helped me to do laundry.. but i complain when he hang the clothes.. the sleeves will be one side up, the other side is still rolled up.. Then we collecting back those dried clothes.. he'll just anyhow throw the clothes back to the laundry basket.. I talked nicely to him.. cos if all the clothes were crumbled, it'll waste alot of time to fold and iron, etc.. things shd be done right at the right time.. then he'll talk back.. since u're always right.. then do all the house work..
After which, we'll go into cold war for a while..
Such things happen as regards to taking care of my 7mth old gal.. lots of arguments recently.. haizzz...
it's a matter of personal conception and also trying to adapt to each other way of thinking.. we're still struggling though..