speaking about mil is a never-ending story, ya?
hubby is the only child and i have been living with pils since 2006. i dunno how i do it and im still sort of struggling everyday especially when hubby is wking on weekends (shift hours). i have to face her all day long. so what i do was i hide in my room when i don't have kids back then. now with kids, it is very difficult to stay in my room all day long, but i tried to siam her whenever mil is in her room or living room or kitchen. she can just watch you doing your things, watch what you buy from outside, watch what you bring to outside etc, machiam her xray eyes are really powerful, haha.
when she is in one of her crazy mood, she can shout @ my maid, sometimes @ her grandsons, the whole block can hear. the volume is really superb when she talks @ 4-5am, its freaking loud & she don't care.
she is really kpo, when it comes to her fave #1 grandson. very pantang too. always want to meddle with his school/homework, like as if she can help. she didn't go to school last time, from what hubby told me. she can just sit beside her grandson & stare @ what he is doing with his homework. when he is fidgeting, she would scream (most of the time) to tell him to finish whatever work he is doing. i told hubby, when you teach son school work, might as well teach your mother so she can teach him while sitting beside him, fully utilise ma. now his exams are starting tomorrow, she even give him drink fu shui. -_-" who in the world does that now?? my time yes, but now??
and yes, she always say last time. i always have the urge to shoot her, last time policemen wear shorts leh. last time 1 bowl of mee cost this much.
always say last time her son can drink milk using milk bottle until 10yrs, pacificer use till 9yrs. -_____-
i force my #1 to stop using pacifier @ 6yrs by shaming him in front of the dentist & tell him to use cup to drink milk or just buy those milk packets lah. life is so much easier now without all these milk bottles & pacifier.
so everytime i go back to my parents' hse, i thank god that hubby is unable to come since he is on shift hours, hence i can complain to my mum abt mil & have a hearty laugh after that.
bottom line is - im gg to stuck with her for the rest of her life. sigh!!!