gooseberry
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Can anyone advise me how to initiate a divorce w my hubby based on unreasonable behaviour?
You need to prepare to justify the unreasonable behaviour... from what I know it is much easier if your hubby is agreeable to the divorce. If not can get quite ugly in courtCan anyone advise me how to initiate a divorce w my hubby based on unreasonable behaviour?
that's fast.. mine took 6months.. also filed unreasonable behavior, citing that he is not in singapore most of the times after marriageIt depends. My friend only took 3-4 months. Both agreed.
Jayjayqueenie: sometimes we dun need a third party to give us the courage to step out of marriage. I'm despondent tt there is no way we can hv a cordial chat nicely abt improving our relationship. There's too much finger pointing n resentment on hubby's part abt my personality. So I've decided to move on, despite the unforeseeable future.
Sad girl: my marriage lacks romance, emotional connectedness, intimacy and gentle communication for the past decade. I guess, I complicate matters, by being intimately involved w a fren, wh I thought I can seek to fill my emotional void.
Paranomic: I find tt it has come to a point whereby I can't hv a heart to heart talk w him w/o him being explosive n violent. I was speaking calmly all the time n yet I still can't break dn his defenses to hv a frank talk to work things out. I'd certainly wish we can work out the kinks in our marriage for I've bn w him half my life. However, it's jus not possible. As fearful of the future ahead, I m resolute to press on w my decision.
Dayan & September: thanx for yr concern. I'm exiting this marriage, not for anyone, but for myself to find back my identity tt has bn lost all these years.
Can anyone advise me how to initiate a divorce w my hubby based on unreasonable behaviour?
i was divorced, now the guy i'm with is not my ex....Pixie, i saw some of your poat saying that u have a good husband that take care of u...so u are divorce?
What sort of unreasonable behaviour? Not making enough money to support your delusional, entitled lifestlye? Perhaps he didn't make your coffee with those imported Brazilian beans and he gave you instant?
Geez, women will divorce over ANYTHING these days
Paranomic: I find tt it has come to a point whereby I can't hv a heart to heart talk w him w/o him being explosive n violent. I was speaking calmly all the time n yet I still can't break dn his defenses to hv a frank talk to work things out. I'd certainly wish we can work out the kinks in our marriage for I've bn w him half my life. However, it's jus not possible. As fearful of the future ahead, I m resolute to press on w my decision.
Dayan & September: thanx for yr concern. I'm exiting this marriage, not for anyone, but for myself to find back my identity tt has bn lost all these years.