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He just called me. Said timeline too late. Said everytime i drag he let me. Everything i want him to do he did but not enough now caused him to miss timeline. Said he's going to tender resignation and leave next week with the woman since singapore has no kin left. Asked me to take care of my son...

Rainbowsky - thanks much for your sharing. Block permission is example end of Nov, he applied online for Dec's 1-31 to leave Singapore. So any day within the month he can leave, based on "work".

should i divorce? the reason was he couldn't live with me anymore bcos of my behaviour. The clauses are: full custody of my son is mine, he pays alimony to me $500 til my son 21 yr old, he pays $800 to my son for maintenance til 21 yr old. He pays all household expenses. The flat is under his...

i started writing on this thread again out of the fact i go become insane from all these. Forced myself to let go already but its the emotions, why i so stupid to cling on to him based on love alone... and he said love me only.. oh my god.. right now he said he may need to run away from...

Now.. even at this point of writing, that 27 year old is in Singapore. She came yesterday. My husband thought I would divorce by the day before but I didn't. He planned her coming cos he said time really running out. If sign now, it takes abt 2 months to generate the divorce and he needs to do...

at this point of time i wouldn't say i was too shocked because i was numb from pain. So no solution. I had persevered and hoped all these while that he can somehow finally let go of that side but now it's impossible with 2 women there and 1 baby born and 1 more on its way... I dont know if...

Thanks for all your advise. Ever since he broke the news on Apr 16 my life had turned upside down and total nightmare, which is still ongoing daily. Here's what really happened. I find my case extremely ridiculous and disturbing. My husband confessed on Apr 16 he owed alot of debt on online...

Any advice at all?? My hubby's Vietnamese mistress wants to come to Singapore to deliver baby when I'm still legally married to my hubby. I really can't stand by and watch it happen. I know her delivery sometime next Feb. If I don't divorce she can't legally deliver here right? Tried to...