Not sure you have heard of DR [diastasis recti] is a muscle separation when we carry our baby in our womb. It stretched. As we age especially our mother era, only recently I heard of it. As we age, our muscle weaken that's where we will have urine leakage. Get it treated first as this is a medical condition. I used to have backache very often. I go massage often thought how come aches so often. My DR was 3 fingers wide around 4.5cm. Now going for treatment has reduced to one finger. When I work I go toilet pretty often like every 1-1.5hr. Not many employers like it. Do find out more what causes DR.