I am married for 7 years with a daughter 4 years old. The actual reason that brought us to this marriage is playful.. At that time when i was still young, 23 years old, i came to know my hubby and he is someone that need companion every night.. but my mum is very strict to me.. She wont let me stay late outside.
And one day, my hubby suggested, why not we get married!! And your mum would not be able to control you anymore... At that time, when he suggested this idea, we have only dated each other for 6 months.. and eventually, i agree with his idea because of playfulness..
When i mentioned to my mum that time that i want to get married with my hubby, my mum objected this marriage.. cos she do not like him and she thinks that he would not be able to provide me a good life.. But as that time, i was still young.. LOVE IS BLIND!!! I insisted that i want to marry this guy...
No choice, my mum agreed unwillingly.. When i get to know my hubby, i knew that he is someone with a very bad and hot temper..do not earn alot of money... but at that time, i just dont mind (cos i thought people may change as they grows older and i did not think of he cant feed me in the future)..
Finally, we managed to get married.. and with his hot temper, he has not been giving me security at all for the past 7 years... he has been talking to me with attitude.. quarrel with me over a small major matter.. and i just tolerate with his nonsense and dare not quarrel back with him..
He do not pay for my daughter's school fees, his mother allowance and our bank debts.. he only pays for the motorcycle installment and utilities... and lastly.. his BEER.. He is someone that needs BEER everyday.. and without it, he cant sleep..
I have been tolerating with him for the past years and finally he has reach my tolerating level.. i cant tahan with him anymore.. cos i feel that he is not acting like a guy.. even when wanna go for better food.. he will say, you pay ah.. i am not paying..
Maybe i can say that as i grow older, the needs and wants are different.. My hubby is unable to provide what i want and he just cant share the liabilities burden with me at all.. i earn much more than him and it seems like i am the one supporting the family and not him.. can say that i am starting to dispise on him..
Can you live with someone that cant lives without beer..
Finally, i have make up my mind to leave him, but he just dont want.. he say he will change his temper and try to kick off his beer.. but now, he is still drinking..
And one more thing is, i no longer love him, can tell me how to live with him longer..
And one day, my hubby suggested, why not we get married!! And your mum would not be able to control you anymore... At that time, when he suggested this idea, we have only dated each other for 6 months.. and eventually, i agree with his idea because of playfulness..
When i mentioned to my mum that time that i want to get married with my hubby, my mum objected this marriage.. cos she do not like him and she thinks that he would not be able to provide me a good life.. But as that time, i was still young.. LOVE IS BLIND!!! I insisted that i want to marry this guy...
No choice, my mum agreed unwillingly.. When i get to know my hubby, i knew that he is someone with a very bad and hot temper..do not earn alot of money... but at that time, i just dont mind (cos i thought people may change as they grows older and i did not think of he cant feed me in the future)..
Finally, we managed to get married.. and with his hot temper, he has not been giving me security at all for the past 7 years... he has been talking to me with attitude.. quarrel with me over a small major matter.. and i just tolerate with his nonsense and dare not quarrel back with him..
He do not pay for my daughter's school fees, his mother allowance and our bank debts.. he only pays for the motorcycle installment and utilities... and lastly.. his BEER.. He is someone that needs BEER everyday.. and without it, he cant sleep..
I have been tolerating with him for the past years and finally he has reach my tolerating level.. i cant tahan with him anymore.. cos i feel that he is not acting like a guy.. even when wanna go for better food.. he will say, you pay ah.. i am not paying..
Maybe i can say that as i grow older, the needs and wants are different.. My hubby is unable to provide what i want and he just cant share the liabilities burden with me at all.. i earn much more than him and it seems like i am the one supporting the family and not him.. can say that i am starting to dispise on him..
Can you live with someone that cant lives without beer..
Finally, i have make up my mind to leave him, but he just dont want.. he say he will change his temper and try to kick off his beer.. but now, he is still drinking..
And one more thing is, i no longer love him, can tell me how to live with him longer..