sane
Active Member
Hi Monster
You are in my thoughts too, I went window shopping and happened to browse thru some nice
infant boy's clothings and was thinking how nice if my boy is still around, very tempted to buy them too.
Suddenly i remembered you told me the clothes and toys that you brought and was thinking that you can tell your children next time about the sister that they have. I am intending to tell my ger about her younger brother too. They will not be forgotten and will always in be our heart forever.
My 1st mc happened in 2005 when the bb heartbeat stopped @ 10 weeks, prior to that, there was bleeding and dark brown discharge throughout that pregnancy too.
After 1 AF cycle, I've conceived my ger. This pregnancy was quite smooth sailing except
that there was fresh bleeding but only for 1 day during the early stage, 05 week.
You are really calm! I actually felt v depressed whenever I see red especially when
the doc could really do nothing except to prescribe hormone pills and jabs.
The worst is there's no specific reason for the bleeding! Other than bedrest, we can only
hope for the best and pray that everything runs smoothly.
Those with fresh bleeding who make it through is really lucky.
I am currently taking tcm now to improve my health and to make the body stronger. Hopefully
it will greatly boost my confidence before I dare to embark on the ttc journey again.
Actually I am still very traumatise by the whole issue - hospitalised twice for bleeding,
I was hospitalised for 7 days before the mc and for 2 days I was alone sleeping in the 4 bedded
ward, very bad mood swing too.
It's very lonely especially it's full bedrest except to the washroom and bath.
The doctor could not explain the cause of the bleeding too, like forever no answer and no
answer on when I could be discharged too. I was like a kuku bird laying on the bed hoping
everyday that the bleeding will stop.
Suddenly my life like being turned upside down, bad MS, bleeding and it's affecting my work,
my family and my social life as well. I no longer felt motivated for anything.
I felt so depressed that I actually tendered but the co persuaded me to stay and find a
temp to replace me until I gave birth initially.
Finally all this ended when I mc on the ward alone in the midnight. The labour was more painful than I gave birth to my ger. It's very terrible as the HO and the nurses were helpless, cannot give any pain relief too. I bled alot with extremely painful cramps and 5hr later,
the MO came to check on me and say that I was fully dilated. Just burst my waterbag and
went off like that. I gave birth to the bb and saw him taking his last breath.
Not only that, the placenta was left inside me for at least 2 more hours and I still have
to go for another D&C 3hrs later. I saw from the other thread, mostly were given GA and I was given epidural! I was awake during the whole process and actually saw what happened. There was alot of blood loss and I felt really giddy, neve felt that way in my entire life.
My back ached for 3 days after the epidural. There was no answer on why did all this happened?
I can suffer but my heart actually goes to the poor bb.
Felt like letting him down because of my bad body who can't hold him. Prior to that, I had a scan during the same day and he's so active,
kicking here and there, nothing wrong around the womb yet at night, I lost him.
Nobody had a answer to all these, I dunno how to prevent it for the next pregnancy too except to build a stronger body before ttc.
Tat's why I am enduring to do a confinement depite the hot weather. Whatever confinement food and tonic my mum
cook, I just eat, ask me to drink dom, I just drink. Trying my best to do everything I can now.
I doesn't know much about clomid. Is it heavy or light bleeding? How long does it last?
Hopefully it will not come again
if it bleed again *touchwood*, it's better to seek a second opinion. Are u seeing Prof Rauff now?
Perhaps you will want to seek the opinion of a good tcm dr as well. Hopefully everything will goes well for you.
You are in my thoughts too, I went window shopping and happened to browse thru some nice
infant boy's clothings and was thinking how nice if my boy is still around, very tempted to buy them too.
Suddenly i remembered you told me the clothes and toys that you brought and was thinking that you can tell your children next time about the sister that they have. I am intending to tell my ger about her younger brother too. They will not be forgotten and will always in be our heart forever.
My 1st mc happened in 2005 when the bb heartbeat stopped @ 10 weeks, prior to that, there was bleeding and dark brown discharge throughout that pregnancy too.
After 1 AF cycle, I've conceived my ger. This pregnancy was quite smooth sailing except
that there was fresh bleeding but only for 1 day during the early stage, 05 week.
You are really calm! I actually felt v depressed whenever I see red especially when
the doc could really do nothing except to prescribe hormone pills and jabs.
The worst is there's no specific reason for the bleeding! Other than bedrest, we can only
hope for the best and pray that everything runs smoothly.
Those with fresh bleeding who make it through is really lucky.
I am currently taking tcm now to improve my health and to make the body stronger. Hopefully
it will greatly boost my confidence before I dare to embark on the ttc journey again.
Actually I am still very traumatise by the whole issue - hospitalised twice for bleeding,
I was hospitalised for 7 days before the mc and for 2 days I was alone sleeping in the 4 bedded
ward, very bad mood swing too.
It's very lonely especially it's full bedrest except to the washroom and bath.
The doctor could not explain the cause of the bleeding too, like forever no answer and no
answer on when I could be discharged too. I was like a kuku bird laying on the bed hoping
everyday that the bleeding will stop.
Suddenly my life like being turned upside down, bad MS, bleeding and it's affecting my work,
my family and my social life as well. I no longer felt motivated for anything.
I felt so depressed that I actually tendered but the co persuaded me to stay and find a
temp to replace me until I gave birth initially.
Finally all this ended when I mc on the ward alone in the midnight. The labour was more painful than I gave birth to my ger. It's very terrible as the HO and the nurses were helpless, cannot give any pain relief too. I bled alot with extremely painful cramps and 5hr later,
the MO came to check on me and say that I was fully dilated. Just burst my waterbag and
went off like that. I gave birth to the bb and saw him taking his last breath.
Not only that, the placenta was left inside me for at least 2 more hours and I still have
to go for another D&C 3hrs later. I saw from the other thread, mostly were given GA and I was given epidural! I was awake during the whole process and actually saw what happened. There was alot of blood loss and I felt really giddy, neve felt that way in my entire life.
My back ached for 3 days after the epidural. There was no answer on why did all this happened?
I can suffer but my heart actually goes to the poor bb.
Felt like letting him down because of my bad body who can't hold him. Prior to that, I had a scan during the same day and he's so active,
kicking here and there, nothing wrong around the womb yet at night, I lost him.
Nobody had a answer to all these, I dunno how to prevent it for the next pregnancy too except to build a stronger body before ttc.
Tat's why I am enduring to do a confinement depite the hot weather. Whatever confinement food and tonic my mum
cook, I just eat, ask me to drink dom, I just drink. Trying my best to do everything I can now.
I doesn't know much about clomid. Is it heavy or light bleeding? How long does it last?
Hopefully it will not come again
if it bleed again *touchwood*, it's better to seek a second opinion. Are u seeing Prof Rauff now?
Perhaps you will want to seek the opinion of a good tcm dr as well. Hopefully everything will goes well for you.