Hello all, I hope to start this thread to provide emotional support for divorcees and exchange or provide advices to those undergoing divorces. I have been through and still undergoing and I have went a long route spending alot of money in legal fees and I learnt it the hard way. Besides monetary losses, I was also taken on an emotional roller coaster ride suffering mild depression. Really hope the sisters here can share their experiences so that we can help each other out. Just to start the ball rolling. My divorce proceedings is already 22 months, from uncontested to contested. I hope to have a closure real soon. I have changed solictor in between as I couldn't afford the exhorbitant fees quoted by my 1st lawyer for anciliary matter hearing. I faced other issues with the jerk using the matrimonial home address to borrow from money lenders and went MIA and left me alone to face the music. Besides this, I am also a frequent visitor to the Family court to enforce on the maintenance for my 3 kids. Endless affidavits and submissions to look through amidst working full time. I also went to Family Service Centre to seek counselling help and financial assistance etc. I hope with this start of the thread, we women can help each other out!