SAHM with 3 or more kids
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kooifung,
hee hee... don't say that lah...
is quite tiring and stressful to be a sahm with 3 kids... so just thot of findin mummies with same situation so can share and encourage each other.
btw, nice to meet you too... especially such a nice mummy who volunteers to help collect stuff and send to the charity org!
<blink><font color="ff6000"><font size="+2">3 cheers to Kooi fung!!!</font></font></blink>
hee hee... don't say that lah...
is quite tiring and stressful to be a sahm with 3 kids... so just thot of findin mummies with same situation so can share and encourage each other.
btw, nice to meet you too... especially such a nice mummy who volunteers to help collect stuff and send to the charity org!
<blink><font color="ff6000"><font size="+2">3 cheers to Kooi fung!!!</font></font></blink>
xpink_xuanx
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im SAHM with 3 kids too.
4yrs old girl, 1yrs old boy and 2weeks old girl
4yrs old girl, 1yrs old boy and 2weeks old girl
<font color="0000ff">Hazel,</font>
oh my!!! you have 4 and the age gap bet the 2nd and 3rd so close!!! how did you survive? my eldest is rebellious also. my girl is a bit like 傻大姐! Blur blur but I try to give her attention cos she showing a bit of middle child syndrome. My youngest is the sweetest, so he gives me a lot of joy! But everyday is a battle!!!
<font color="119911">xpink,</font>
it must be a difficult stage now since your bb only 2 weeks and ur 1 yr old boy must be fighting for attention. <blink><font color="ff0000">加油！</font></blink>
<font color="0077aa">Binary,</font>
It's not easy, that's why I started this thread hoping to encourage one another.
oh my!!! you have 4 and the age gap bet the 2nd and 3rd so close!!! how did you survive? my eldest is rebellious also. my girl is a bit like 傻大姐! Blur blur but I try to give her attention cos she showing a bit of middle child syndrome. My youngest is the sweetest, so he gives me a lot of joy! But everyday is a battle!!!
<font color="119911">xpink,</font>
it must be a difficult stage now since your bb only 2 weeks and ur 1 yr old boy must be fighting for attention. <blink><font color="ff0000">加油！</font></blink>
<font color="0077aa">Binary,</font>
It's not easy, that's why I started this thread hoping to encourage one another.
ya... my 3rd son is also the one who keeps giving me joy everyday but he is too clingy at times that I find it as a nuisance, heehee....
My eldest gal will be the one who made me headache everyday wo fail.... but overall i am still lucky enough as I still have my 2nd son who is quite sensible... He at times help me out with housewrk, those simple one lah...
My eldest gal will be the one who made me headache everyday wo fail.... but overall i am still lucky enough as I still have my 2nd son who is quite sensible... He at times help me out with housewrk, those simple one lah...
wintersonata_2003
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hi marmum & mommies here,
i m also a SAHM with 3 kids. 6 & 5 yrs old girls & 9 mths old boy. both girls are hyperactive & mischievous, the elder one who is born in the year of monkey being the worst!!
SAHM... a very tiring & tedious job... 24/7. looking after them all by myself w/o any help from PIL & myself is fr single parent family. now like living in batuk cave... never been to RWS, ION Orchard etc. lost touch with the world liao...
i m also a SAHM with 3 kids. 6 & 5 yrs old girls & 9 mths old boy. both girls are hyperactive & mischievous, the elder one who is born in the year of monkey being the worst!!
SAHM... a very tiring & tedious job... 24/7. looking after them all by myself w/o any help from PIL & myself is fr single parent family. now like living in batuk cave... never been to RWS, ION Orchard etc. lost touch with the world liao...
Now we have 3 mummies here with a 6 year old child - <font color="ff6000">Hazel,</font> <font color="0000ff">wintersonata</font> and myself.
Seems like the monkeys are all very mischievous.. ha ha! I have a hard time with him also.
Always losing my cool.
wintersonata,
your husband not free to bring the family out ocassionally? There's a small playground at the shoppin mall beside Centrepoint (if I rem correctly cos I've been there once only). Can go window shop and let the kids play there for a while.
Mirda,
hi there! since your elder 2 are girls, they should be able to help around the house right?
Hazel, Mirda,
How do your manage the house and kids? I find myself screaming at them constantly. Sometimes, I hate myself for that!
Seems like the monkeys are all very mischievous.. ha ha! I have a hard time with him also.
Always losing my cool.
wintersonata,
your husband not free to bring the family out ocassionally? There's a small playground at the shoppin mall beside Centrepoint (if I rem correctly cos I've been there once only). Can go window shop and let the kids play there for a while.
Mirda,
hi there! since your elder 2 are girls, they should be able to help around the house right?
Hazel, Mirda,
How do your manage the house and kids? I find myself screaming at them constantly. Sometimes, I hate myself for that!
Hi mar_mum,
No choice but to scream at them too no matter how much I hate myself for it.
My hubby will at times help me out with the housewrk. and now, I am considering of returning to wrkforce cos my gal's pd was suggesting that my eldest gal could be belong to the type that would prefer parents go wrkg.
No choice but to scream at them too no matter how much I hate myself for it.
My hubby will at times help me out with the housewrk. and now, I am considering of returning to wrkforce cos my gal's pd was suggesting that my eldest gal could be belong to the type that would prefer parents go wrkg.
Hazel,
u asked ur gal's PD about her behaviour and that's what he suggested? i thot such suggestion should come from like counsellor.
I comtemplatin to go work also. cos cannot manage him. But then, was doing the calculation, if i work, all the money will go to childcare and nothing left. then when I reach home, I still gotta do housework and stuff. So, like not very economical.
Recently found this book from the library: 'In praise of stay-at-home-mum' by Dr Laura Schlessinger, so at least a bit comfort about my decision. Cos this book is an assurance to sahm that it is a wise decision to do so.
u asked ur gal's PD about her behaviour and that's what he suggested? i thot such suggestion should come from like counsellor.
I comtemplatin to go work also. cos cannot manage him. But then, was doing the calculation, if i work, all the money will go to childcare and nothing left. then when I reach home, I still gotta do housework and stuff. So, like not very economical.
Recently found this book from the library: 'In praise of stay-at-home-mum' by Dr Laura Schlessinger, so at least a bit comfort about my decision. Cos this book is an assurance to sahm that it is a wise decision to do so.
that pd of mine was quite gd, he was like a frenz of mine.
yes, it is nt worth if all sent to cc so my hubby and I was thinking of hiring a maid as we did so last time.
my hubby will be coming home ard 11am which is ard 8 hrs after I went for wrk so it shldn't be much of a prob.
yes, it is nt worth if all sent to cc so my hubby and I was thinking of hiring a maid as we did so last time.
my hubby will be coming home ard 11am which is ard 8 hrs after I went for wrk so it shldn't be much of a prob.
Haze,
ur hubby work overnight shift? then wat you going to work as? u leave home at 3am??
i had a maid for a short while. While I was pregnant with no. 3 and a few months after. Maid didn't wanna continue and I also decided to do away with maid. Kids were spending too much time playin with maid in the afternoon. And it's difficult having to manage kids as well as maid.
ur hubby work overnight shift? then wat you going to work as? u leave home at 3am??
i had a maid for a short while. While I was pregnant with no. 3 and a few months after. Maid didn't wanna continue and I also decided to do away with maid. Kids were spending too much time playin with maid in the afternoon. And it's difficult having to manage kids as well as maid.
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domesticgoddess
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