FFT
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I m not a sahm but is considering to be one..dun u gals feel insecure to have no source of income of ur own? I mean to be totally dependent on ur husband? I have these thoughts into consideration and have been telling myself to ditch the idea of "losing" my job.
I mean..what if someday something happens (eg husband has an affair or he suddenly lost his job) *touchh wood*..how am i going to cope? I dun like the idea of having to ask my husband for money whenever i see a nice dress or skincare that i fancy in the malls. If i have a source of income of my own, even if he forsakes the family, my kids and I can still go on without having to be dependent on him. I have seen wives in broken family who stayed on in the family (keep one eye close on their husband's affairs outside just as long as the hubsnad brings back to money to feed her kids).
I mean..what are ur tots of these?
I mean..what if someday something happens (eg husband has an affair or he suddenly lost his job) *touchh wood*..how am i going to cope? I dun like the idea of having to ask my husband for money whenever i see a nice dress or skincare that i fancy in the malls. If i have a source of income of my own, even if he forsakes the family, my kids and I can still go on without having to be dependent on him. I have seen wives in broken family who stayed on in the family (keep one eye close on their husband's affairs outside just as long as the hubsnad brings back to money to feed her kids).
I mean..what are ur tots of these?