strawberrina
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I just found out I'm pregnant with #4, unplanned.
I am unsure what to do. On one hand, I don't mind caring for 4 kids, but I am somehow paranoid if my 4th will be born normal as I have already been blessed with 3 healthy and adorable kids.
Hubby prefers to stay where we are as we are comfy and happy with 3 now, no need for the added stress and risk of knowing whether the 4th will be normal or not.
Frankly I feel a bit stretched in the amount of quality time I can spend with each kid now, and already am guilty often whenever I don't get to care for any of the kids enough. Having a 4th is gonna stretch this out further.
However, I feel that it is wrong to opt to terminate a baby, should it be normal and healthy (which I wouldn't know).
I am lost. I have another 1 week plus to decide, as gynae says termination is done ideally at 7 weeks.
I am unsure what to do. On one hand, I don't mind caring for 4 kids, but I am somehow paranoid if my 4th will be born normal as I have already been blessed with 3 healthy and adorable kids.
Hubby prefers to stay where we are as we are comfy and happy with 3 now, no need for the added stress and risk of knowing whether the 4th will be normal or not.
Frankly I feel a bit stretched in the amount of quality time I can spend with each kid now, and already am guilty often whenever I don't get to care for any of the kids enough. Having a 4th is gonna stretch this out further.
However, I feel that it is wrong to opt to terminate a baby, should it be normal and healthy (which I wouldn't know).
I am lost. I have another 1 week plus to decide, as gynae says termination is done ideally at 7 weeks.